Im assuming I should always take it as red that it's a womans way of saying she is not interested? It happens, it's fine, its just that with one girl I was chatting to who works at the gym (not the same girl I'm talking about in my other post) she has done exactly that....so I totally gave up and moved on (in my head)...although she is still saying hello whereas I am not bothered .....its almost like since I've given up she is making more of an effort to be friendly. I'm not really a Facebok kind of guy with regards to picking up women, kinda use it as a last resort.