so basically theres a girl who i had hooked, she really fancied me and i had her, but ifuk it up,wen i first met her she invited me bak to her house i said for her to come to mine, i got distracted and forgot to txt her the nxt day with the time etc, her and her friends took this as, a) im a player and b) im a dick, so i lost her bascailly anyway i ran into her recently and man i regret not gettin with her she is so fit... i saw her out toongight in the local uni club and i gave her a hug, her firends immediately pulled her away.. i dont know how to play this, shud i give her a txt now late at night, sayin woah u look great tonight wish i hada chance to talk to u.... or shud i do it tomorrow or wat... any adviece welcome cheers peeps

Hey Man

Not an expert but my thoughts would be dont get hung up on this one chick. She may be interested in you but if you start texting her late at night (obsessing about her etc) then you are going to get a severe case of oneitus, she will think you are a wuss and you will have a high chance of slipping into the LJBF zone . In my experience its best to move on with your life, have fun with your friends and not care too much about the outcome with this girl. This will work brilliantly if you are in the same bar as her and she SEES you having fun and talking to other girls. Bizarrely if you do this you will often find that she will try to get back in touch with you!!
Good luck

Will

How do you know all these things, have you been talking to her and her friends about this?

To be frank you don't have to text the next day if you don't want. There's no immediate time limit where she gives up on you in say 24 hours. Obviously if you leave it a few days, or a week then it shows lack of interest does it not? And of course she could have met another 3 or 4 guys who have made it clear they are going to bed her.

I'd just text her asking if she wants to meet up, try and keep it brief don't go rambling on trying to explain stuff as texts aren't the best format to do that.
If she doesn't reply then leave it, don't go chasing her you'll probably just put her off more.
If she does reply, meet up, do your thing, bingo!

What Tom said is the best and most practical thign to do...

i would phone her!

be casual... 'hey, good hug by the way last night!' etc

very breif

ask her what shes doing...

tell her she should come out with you!

2-3mins tops, and you will be in control again.

she obvs likes you!

Picard.

What the lads said. Forget sneaking around behind texts and phone her. She's had a 1000 different guys text her, be the one who has the balls to ring.