Hello everyone. First off im new here and to the pick up world. I bumped into an unusual situation and was hoping i could get some advice. I met this girl in november last year and we went on our first date in december. 1st date i couldnt even hold her hand. A month later we kissed and thats as far as she would let me. Third, a month later, we dry humped each other but no sex. Fourth, another long month waiting... We had sex. Finally. I thought all the drama was over and in hindsight i should have made it official that same day (since this girl is definitely a keeper). We kept talking over text and she seemed genuinely interested in seeing me even saying that she "missed me". The problem with this girl is that she is extremely hard to take out. Which is why we basically only see each other once a month... She either doesnt respond to my text, flakes or cant meet that weekend, etc. i would have given up on her a long time ago if she didnt give me many signs of interest when we are together and if i didnt think she was a catch. I cant tell if she is playing hard to get or if she simply isnt interested. I suspect she is seeing other guys and looking at her options. Any help is appreciated.

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