I got introduced to this game by a friend who gave me the book"the game". Before he gave me the book I had a lot of luck with woman. I was on 12 different women before I knew about any of this. I read the book twice before taking it out to town. Everything I had learnt had worked. Before I knew it my confidence was through the roof and I was number closing 2 or 3 girls a night.

Now when I go out, I don't go out for my love of night clubs, I still go out with my friends, I don't go out because I love the game and I like to chat to women. I go out to prove my self to my friends and other people. I won't be happy if my mates don't take notice of how many girls I got with. My fame is sky high, but I don't want to know how low my morals are.

I write to you because I want to know if anyone else has had this problem. It feels like an addiction.

Please post me your advice and past experiance

alfie x

By the way when I said "my fame is sky high" I ment to say my game
fucking well hard to write on my iPod. Btw does anyone post any field reports? X

'I won't be happy if my mates don't take notice of how many girls I got with.'

I don't think that's a healthy mindset at all, why should you feel the need to prove yourself to anyone?? If you are constantly seeking that sort of validation then you will always be an unhappy boy looking to have his ego massaged.

Going out should be about enjoying the moment with the people you like to spend time with, getting the girls should be second to that at best. If you go out purely to prove yourself to your mates they will pickup on this and probably tire of it.

And yes, people do post field reports here, there is a whole section dedicated to it. Enjoy.

if you have mentianed to your friends that you are learning to get better with women or if you are trying to get your friends approval and climb some sort of social ladder within your group that only excists in your head, it can sometimes be recived with scepitisisum thus causing you to prove that what you are learning is effective,

allthough its an unhealthy stage to be going through because it will effect your moral if you go out one night and dont pull, it will pass if you chill.

Hey, thanks for the advice. I think I needed someone to tell me that. Had a think about it all, and went out with mates last night. Found that if I cool it down a bit and just have a good time, women are more likely to open our group. I think it's because we were showing social proof or something by how much fun we were having. I can see that proving my self isn't cool. And my friends dint care. Thanks for the help

that's like would you take the blue pill or take the red pill?

Matrix Philosophy - Blue or Red Pill?