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Originally Posted by kowalski (Post 98344)

You don't need to search for girls. I agree that can be very wasteful of your resources to do so. As long as you are already comfortable chatting with and having physical contact with strangers, then you can just go about your normal daily life (providing that involves being out of the house in situations where there are other humans from time-to-time) and act upon opportunities as they present themselves.

And that's basicly what I do. But my daily life in term time currently involves, lectures, reading, studying and going to a student club about twice a week and occasionally going out to a bar with a few people from my course. I can't really aford much more in terms of time or money. So when I flirt with the girls and get almost zero responce I kind of don't know what to do to get on their radar.

Stop trying to "get on their radar" and just have fun. The need for anything, gets in the way of everything. Don't be a reaction seeking little bitch. Just be a social guy and have fun like you would with any other woman. Stop treating it like "I have to be different with this kind of girl" or you're just going to get nowhere.

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Originally Posted by J.Daniels (Post 98378)

Yes I will reply to this post.

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Originally Posted by J.Daniels (Post 98378)

I'm sorry but I can't respect the opinion of a person who posts thread after thread begging people to "sarge" with him,

Cool, lets clear up your lie. I never use the word sarge. It's too aggressive. :rocketwhore:

I have always called it a meet up. And when I talk about it to my normal friends I refer to it as "going out and chatting up girls"

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Originally Posted by J.Daniels (Post 98378)

and then gets bitter when he gets no results. Lol. Moronic, really.

I never get bitter if I get rejected. It would make me look bad and insecure.

like Jaz said in a different post.

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Originally Posted by Jaz (Post 98250)

The best thing that can happen here is she rejects you, you walk out the store feeling awkard then five minutes later feel awesome. This is confidence building here, you are going to get rejected allot more than a girl will say "sure you can lick my pussy!". Get used to it, get tough. It's like boxing man, you have to take that first punch in the face before you relize it dosnt actually hurt.

Which was the exact thing I said to my wing on Saturday.

Hence the reason I stood up for this forum. Because people know what they are talking about here. :puaforum:

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Originally Posted by drop collision (Post 98385)

I never use the word sarge.

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Now can we please put our dicks away and get back on topic?

I wouldn't say I'm reaction seeking, I've always considered my self a naturally flurtatious person so that is kind of natural for me. However I'm used to girls being happy to flirt back a little, open up a little more perhaps. My flirting usually puts girls more at ease. But if anything I'd say it was having the opposite effect here. Sure no one is slapping me and storming off but I can't help but notice how topics get changed more often after I start flirting.

Oh my god. you got me.

Yes, sorry.

Maybe they're just not attracted to you? There's not a magic pick up line to fix that. Maybe you're being too forward, not forward enough? Some people try to flirt and they're just awkward. I hope you're not one of those guys who just discovered this stuff and is running around negging everything in sight lol.

Honestly, the best thing you can do is just have fun and not give a fuck. Do things because they amuse YOU. Not because you're trying to impress some girls. Treat all girls the same, be charming, flirt (maybe work on this if it's the problem), keep doing what you're doing and you'll learn from it and inevitably the results will come, when you're not so fixed on getting them.

No offence but if pick up skills can't make you seem more attractive to women (on average) then really what is the point of them?

You'd struggle to assimilate the full concept if I explained it properly. It's not like you learn a couple of quick fix lines that will just instantly get her wet. That shit is just what people say to sell you their product (my recent claims that Adam Lyons is good will come back to bite me in the ass if you make me say that again). Sure you could use routines and get laid now and then with no real connection and it'd drain your confidence bit by bit as you realise that girls only want you because you're using routines taught by a mentally unstable man with nail varnish on. The best thing to be doing realistically is to practice your social skills by approaching women, bantering/flirting and keep at it. Repetition is the mother of skill.

It's not this little external set of skills that you use. It's about becoming the best possible version of yourself, getting your shit together and being an actual man. Women are just a side effect of this. A quick rule of thumb is that everything you've ever been taught about women is probably wrong.

Wanna know what's weird? When you stop focusing on women and start focusing on the other areas of your life, women will weirdly come to you. Then it's up to you to make the most of the opportunities.

Most guys find out that it's not just a book of chat up lines and routines that suddenly get you laid left and right, and they're straight out the door. Stick at it, and you'll understand.

You don't flirt with your female mates?