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Default Help- Girl has a rebound guy, I'm after her next - 13-12-2015, 10:11 PM

***Edit: I used the word clingy incorrectly, Im simply after some indicators and getting her chasing me a little before I go further***

I know a lot of you guys will hate me for this, but I need to play the game with her.

She knows how to get guys interested and to play with guys heads a little. I need to flip this around and get her chasing me.

Fuck it, I'll go all the way and say I need to get her clinging after me. I like her a lot and have been on a few "meet n greets" with her. The first time she was talking about sex with me, but I know it was her playing the game as I purposely didnt act too interested in her so she was trying to get my attention.

Second date we went pizza hut, we talked but she wasnt too chatty at that point

Third date was more me driving over to drop something off, we spoke in the car and shared a small peck.

I've realised I am borderlining the friendzone if I carry on down this route. We're not talking too much at the moment and I havent text her for a good 2 weeks or so. I think the initial comfort stage is there and now it is time to move to stage 2 and start attraction.

How do people recommend I proceed at this point? My goal is to get her chasing me and borderlining clingy!

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Default 13-12-2015, 10:30 PM

Okay, we're still talking. Just today she was asking me how a company party I went to was and we were discussing it over skype.

The vibe I have been giving her during all meetings (bar the first one) was "fun".

I like this girl and I've done a lot for her. We do have mutual respect at some level. My issue is I am an acquaintance at the moment and I am trying to avoid the friend zone. I think CLINGY is the wrong word to use; I'm simply after pulling her in at this point and ramping up attraction. That is the plan but I want her to be the one chasing me a little at this point.

My question is, how do I proceed trying to get her chasing me instead of me chasing her? I'm looking to increase her interest in me before I show her my full interest in her!

Don't get me wrong, I am not looking to destroy her... I genuinely like this one and want to be the one to look after her!
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