Hello

I met a very good looking HB on a club one night, we had a lot of kisses and sexual touching. Now I asked her out on a coffee. (We both study at the same Uni).

Today we met, got the coffee and went to the library/study zone to do some work and talk. It was quite fun, we laughed a lot, did a bit of touching, holding hands, poking, it of C&F jokes yet I couldn't make it far enough to kiss her.

Now I know that in the club, 50% of the job was done by the booze (confidence wise, both her and mine). My question is, how can I show her (next time I meet her which will be tomorrow) that I want to kiss her? How can I escalate those sort of emotions that would make her more open to that?

This reminds me of a girl I saw a while ago 2-3 times as I was going through my progression.

Talking, touching, poking, etc

Anyway, it got to the point on the 3rd time I met her that I was at a stage where I had the vibe and the understanding of how the basic concepts of what a lot of people call "game", actually relates so heavily to everyday life within so many things from a job interview to a social event.

So I walked upto her and she straight away said "hey" with a big smile and I grabbed hold of her and kissed her. Then as I started to pull away from her lips (but still holding her) I told her that everytime she used a vowel I'm going to kiss her.

I can't remember exactly what she said but it was something with 2 vowels in ("I'll play" I think maybe) so she got 2 kisses. Wasn't long till we were at her place.



My advice: 20 seconds of courage... See her, start the 20 seconds, kiss her, let the moment take the rest and you'll forget you were ever counting 20 seconds.

If it all goes tits up then so what, 20 seconds is insignificant. The important thing is that you lead the interaction towards where you want it to go and understant that it has to come from you.

Today she invited me to her place. We watched a movie and lied together. She hugged me, kept her head on my chest, held my hand, didn't mind me holding mine on her ass. It was better than the last time. However whenever I looked in her eyes (triangle gaze) she just kept saying: "Why are you looking at me like that?" which distracted me and I couldn't close it. She was clearly having a good time. I am not sure what to do next. Cool her off a bit maybe?

Well here we go with a tutorial on how to fuck unfuckable things up:
I couldnt resist and i messaged her saying: "i forgot to do something today". She asked me what? I replied: "kiss you". Now at the moment it is totally reasonable to do a double face palm. She replied that today was nice yet she isnt looking for anything serious and is going through her ex boyfriend issues. I guess thats it so there we go. Make it a sticky one as it definitely shows what NOT to do so it has some educational value for others.
Peace

Dude, she now feels unattractive and you texting her that would make her think that any escalation with you would be an after thought.

This is the gayest shit I've ever heard. She had you in her bed and you didn't go to make out with her or more. Call me old fashion, but shit all I see is green lights.

I wouldn't of text that either, you saw you had your window and tried to salvage it with that line. The lucky thing is you know what to do next time. Go for it when the oppurtunity arises. It doesn't have to be the perfect situation when you go to make out with a girl, it doesn't have to be romantic. You just need to go for it. If she turns away and gives you the let's just be friends speech you know where you're at.

Hey, I know that you might see them, yet not everybody is "alpha" and does. There are still guys who never really had anything to do with those green lights. Anyways, she then messaged me asking if we can be friends. I kindly explained to her that I am not that type of a guy and she shouldn't bother. Good enough, at least I've learnt my lesson.

You could always go for the dominant uglier fat girls who would be willing to make the first move? Then your laughing you don't have to worrying about when to kiss her n shit coz she will esculate the whole thing!

It's not alpha. It's taking the initiative.

Like I said, next time when an oppurtunity arises, you know to take it

Always gotta treat the Day 2 like a new interaction which I think you know. I mean unless you went all the day on the first meeting and just made out, chances are their will be a recoil effect where she takes a step back. And doesn't want to feel cheap now that alchohol has worn off and puts up some resistance.

However as far as signalling the kiss the "triangle" method helps. Where you just pause and look at her. And you look at her eyes and then her lips and then back at her eyes again. But still have to make sure the water is boiling for you to drink your tea.