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Originally Posted by no.fx
I am the type of guy that gets very easily distracted, for example if I like a girl, I have a tendency to consume my thoughts entirely, rather than thinking about other things such as my career.
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I think it's time for you to consider how healthy this mindset is.
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Originally Posted by no.fx
Maybe this belief will change over time but at the moment I feel like if I found that person, then it would mean that those resources could be spent on my career.
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Don't assume you can just get a girl and once you think she's yours you can just focus all your energy elsewhere. Maybe she'll require more attention than seeing you one day a week, and maybe she'll get easily distracted herself.