hey guys
i have been away for a bit (probably didnt notice i was gone )
i have a few questions
today was a perfect example
very attracktive waitress at a bar... she said it was her birthday so i said it was mine...and then told her it wasnt
made her make me an aj with certain fruits in (which she said sounded nice)
she came to check on us and asked me directly how my drink was and if i liked the fruit in it.
i told her yea and i would like an orange cut up into segments
she came with the orange and i said i cant believe she actually did it and gave her a hi 5 for doing it
at the point our hands touched she grasped mine slightly (sort of interlocking)
should i have gone with the flow and grasped them back or just retracketed...
now here is the thing
should i have gone to the bar after and talked to her about her birthday etc...
number close with friends around?
or what
she seems very sweet and is good looking...
my mate chats her up all the time so he told me and she invited him to her birthday drinks on thursday so i might go i am not sure...
any thoughts guys
thanks !!!

Go with your mate on Thursday. Why not? You have nothing to lose. You'll get a chance to chat to her outside her working environment where it'll be more appropriate to kino etc.

Better than not goin and thinking 'what if?'

do u think should have number closed her though...
infront of my friends or like gone to see her at the bar...?

You shouldn't have asked in front of your friends, she may have thought it was a joke or a dare and have been more likely to say no

Good point, I guess it could go either way.

well missed my chance now anyway...
not sure if she was just being friendly or if she was showing any IoI

cool thread
i just need to get over this fear of rejection
so what if she says no
anyway thanks for the feedback
watching david delangelo video about the approach and he is so right
you go over the situation again and again in your head...
and next time i see her i need all the good stuff i have done will be forgotten...