Met a girl tonight (E European) f*ing gorgeous, she's a friend of a close mate of mine whose b'day it was. Only spoke to her a lil bit, I get the impression from her BL that she was at least attracted to me a lil bit. As a hail mary have added her on FB and want to proceed with PM, just need some pointers?!

Cheers for the feedback kowalski.

I remember when a girl awhile back added me on FB after I met her, and messaged me quite a bit, for some reason I didn't see this as interest, even though she said a particular aspect of me was a big turn on for her, f*ck knows why!

Anyway I'm a different man now. Are you saying to send the interesting thing about my day in the v. first message after she accepts my friend request?!

Cool man. Although there is nothing interesting about a Sunday afternoon lazing around the house!

Thanks for the examples. Just working out how to translate that, to both Facebook and English.

It was more the hola. I guess I can say hey instead, she accepted anyway but didn't send a message. One of these girls with like 800 friends and lots of thirsty guys liking and commenting on her pics (when will guys learn). Maybe I can use the E. Europeanness and ask if theres a decent place to eat E European brunch?

I was gonna alter it a bit like "Hey xxx
I’m looking for somewhere I can try E European cuisine in London"? I'm brand new to this!

I am always on the lookout for new experiences so yes. Although you are right about the timing. I'll message her that tomorrow lunchtime. Cheers for the advice though.

Yeah I'm not very good at this. I'll just message her Hello xxx, how are you? And see if I get a response.

It sounds like you're caught up in the standard new guy 'I feel the need to say something special or clever or interesting' mode. Regardless of whatever, the best thing you can do is just get on with it, keep whatever you say simple and get used to lowering the bar for what you say.