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Default Advice for beginners, by SmileyK - 01-07-2015, 08:36 PM

1) Do not make your goal to be 'getting good with women'. This immediately puts the woman at the centre of your world, and is a bad frame to start with.

Instead...

2) Improve ALL aspects of your life.

3) Go out and take action. One of the best threads relating to this (IMO) is Nova's daygame journal (don't know how to add the link, if anyone can help it is appreciated)

4) It's all about trial and error. Different things will work for different people - for example I have found RSD to be really useful, whereas some people on the forum wouldn't touch it with a bargepole.

5) Always remember that the 'Game' is organic, rather than logical.

I wouldn't say this is amazing advice, but it is probably better than some of the dross I've seen here recently!


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Default 02-07-2015, 12:10 PM

How do you mean "organic"? I think I get what you by not "logical" - as in it shouldn't be a process like something you follow at your job, or study up on and memorise like at University.
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Default 04-07-2015, 10:29 PM

Logical would be 'do A, and B happens'

Organic would be 'do A, and B. C or D could happen'

So you can have theory, but just be prepared for anything to happen. Since adopting that mentality I've found that it has helped me greatly


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