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Default 08-06-2015, 06:11 AM

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Default 08-06-2015, 09:19 AM

Why don't you like girls finding you attractive?


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Default 08-06-2015, 09:47 AM

Have you come to the conclusion that you're more suited to DayGame because of this interaction. Are these problems you're facing in other interactions or are you looking for advice in this specific situation?


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Default 08-06-2015, 10:08 AM

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Default 08-06-2015, 10:34 AM

When you're having a bad run of form, looks can save you. Options breeds confidence. Confidence helps you feel comfortable outputting your personality without worry. Unless you don't have a personality in the first place don't worry about your looks.
And anyway you should not rely on women to allow you to create a personality.
You will automatically succeed if you have options and that success breeds more success.

What I would advise though is to cut the gamey way of thinking about talking to girls. It is fine to add techniques to your arsenal. Do you reckon people who are good (be it naturals or learnt) think "I need to add value". Fuck no!

I think I've answered your question, otherwise, what exactly is the problem?


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Default 08-06-2015, 11:21 AM

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Default 08-06-2015, 11:41 AM

To be creative, take what you see in her be it clothes, the way she moves, etc comment on it and twist it.
When I mean twist it I mean, like a character, animal etc.

She's wearing fake tan: You look like an umpa loompa (that was sarcasm, don't actually use that one).
Amuse yourself/

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This thread is not about my game, confidence, underlying isssues and so on...I only mentioned the situation to my personal challenges so that others can relate.
Most things can be fixed if you can sort yourself out internally, look for advice on this rather than technicals

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'I walk in to a pharmacy looking to by some baby powder. I ask a girl worker if the baby powder is just for human babies, or, whether I can use it on my baby dog who gets really sweaty after our walks'...then transitioning to touching and closing (all using the situation).'
I did not see that...that's hella weird bruh. Unless you're clearly taking the piss...and even then it's still weird to try and get her number.


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Default 08-06-2015, 11:52 AM

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I do not like to rely on physical attractiveness because at anytime and anywhere I could have an accident and become a complete fugly...then what am I left with...A big ego, and no personal skills. Looks SHOULD NEVER be relied upon fullstop.
To denounce your looks because of either some paranoia about an accident, or to seek some kind of level of skill that will insulate you from risk…that's all pretty convoluted.

It's a bit like Usain Bolt refusing to run in case an aeroplane crashes on the track or something!

At the moment your mind is buying into anything that puts a technique or theory between you, and the thing you are afraid of. That's probably why you are overanalysing how to escalate too.

You're going to need to unpick that kind of thinking Dom.

Truth is, you are just a bit scared. But keep trying, and try to let go of the complexity because all it's doing is slowing you down.


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Default 08-06-2015, 11:54 AM

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Top hat thanks for the useful reply.

Kowalski, you are not much use for a so-called virtual Master PUA
Now I feel bad giving you advice. I completely agree with what Kowalski is saying. And this has come even more apparent after this post. Internally you need to sort yourself out.

You came here and posted a few problems about yourself. All has been addressed, including the manner in which you approach pick up. Do you expect women to actually date you be it long term, short term or even one night stands if you act like this. Unless of course you use only your looks and go home with a low quality girl.


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