Ok so me and my ex broke up 2 and a half months ago! Before she left for uni we where still banging! We met up last weekend where I went to see her at uni because we agreed to go see something together now that was the first time we had seen eachother in 2months! Anyway before I went to see her I had banged someone else and obviously someone told her because she was sending me txts saying that when I got there I wasn't staying in her bed, which I was like because I thought she didn't want to start anything up or did want to lead me on, I didn't know someone had told her I banged someone else! Now when I was there It went from 'I'm gonna go stay in my friends room and watch a film whilst I stayed in her room', couple of hours went by I was just chilling in her bed watching tv and she came back in and said oh yeah by the way I'm just gonna stay in here tonight! That's when I knew it was on! She got in the bed later on fully clothed and turned the light off! This is when I started spooning her and stroking her! Ha shut escalated and before we were about to have sex she said to me I heard you slept with someone which I denied cos I was really horny and wanted to bang her and knew she wouldn't if I said I did! So anyway we had sex that night later that night and the morning! We spent all day being affectionate with other the next dat kissing all the time hugging! Next night banged her again same happened in the morning! I left the day after not kissing goodbye just a hug! Didn't txt her on my 3 hour journey home and not even when I got home! She txt later that night asking if I got home ok! We sent afew txts msgs back and fourth that night and then I fell asleep with her sending the last txt! Now it's been three days since she sent that last txt! I'm gonna lie still have feelings for her after those few days but I'm not gonna show it! What do I do cos I feel she still likes me!

Try Ritalin.

Is this the same gf you posted about on the 27th Feb?

If so, follow the advise from that thread.

And don't lie.

Good help guys ha

Anyone else got anything to input?

Honestly I think you should follow K's advice about being honest with her.

Your actions here show the level of maturity and your intentions at that moment in time.
You're playing games and trying not to show you have feelings, which either you do and you're pretending you don't or you really don't and you're just using your ex as a sperm receptacle.

Either way be honest with yourself and with her what it is - chances are it will work in your favour. Personally I think you made a bit of a jackass move not texting her when you got home etc. even just to say thanks for hosting because either way you want her as something more or at least a fuck buddy and even then they're still a buddy.

Thanks for the help lads, solid advice

Sorry to keep pestering, but what's the best way to put it across that we clearly both still like eachother so why not just try it again?

Text her and say:

"I think we both still like each other, so why don't we give things another go?"

Edit: Haha - I never saw Kowalski's reply as it was on the next page!