Facebook friend request need some PUA help.. -
11-02-2015, 11:53 AM
Hey guys,
i woke up this morning to find a 8 - 9 HB add me on Facebook. I have 1 mutual friend with her who i don't know too well.
i haven't accepted the request yet however i was going to send her a message first asking where she knows me from. Just before pressing send i STOPPed and thought back to all the numbers i have followed up with a text and no response.
Ive browsed through some of her pics and shes promoting herself on skype. shes got the whole Sarah Palin thing going on lol
so heres my question to you...
a. Should i send her a message to find out who she is??
if yes then whats the best approach.
b. shall i just accept her request and leave it to fate (in other words its never gonna happen)
c. thank her for the add, and ask her to bend over if not go away....
OK C. is a bit tooo direct and would most probably be a straight turn off as we dont have any rapport yet...
Just accept the request and then message her afterwards.
Also - don't overlook or get carried away with the fact she's added you on fb, these days someone adding you or being friends with someone on fb really doesn't mean much at all.
I've had randomers add me before that meant nothing. I've had randomers add me before that meant something. I even have a child with a girl & the whole story started with a random friend request.
My suggestion would be to message her and tell her you think she's hot and you want to meet. If she says no (or maybe), delete her and go out and talk to people in real life.
(The fact you even created this post makes me think you're not meeting enough women you find attractive in real life and you need to sort that out)
If some random girl added me on FB I'd just ignore it.
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