Look. Once you split with a girl you break their fantasy.
Guys always take break ups harder coz we only value what we had when its gone. Where as women see a potential fairytale until it ends, then they realise its finite... so it breaks the fantasy.
The only way to genuinely get someone back is a good 6 - 8 months in which they would need a reflection period and in that time the following would have to happen.
A) your still interested in that time she decided she wants to be with you
B) she hasn't met anyone who is more compatible in her mind (or is better in bed)
C) you would need to still be in some form of mild contact (which could drive u insane, especially if (B) happens
D) you couldn't in any way act as if you need the relationship. But still let her know you wanna fuck her.
Sexual Need is attractive
Emotional Need is off-putting.
That is an obstacle course of emotion right there pal! Can you really be assed?
I would just say "do u know what, ur right.. the sex is fucking awesome... but.we will probably find partners more compatible anyway. lets cut the chord"
Then back off. If she comes back! sound. If not.. u were gonna waste ur time.
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I like this part. Been thinking about how horny I get with girls, and they defo lap it up. It's totally positive to express this side of yourself with girls.
Ha yeah so I carried on sleeping with her for the past three days and we have been hanging out and acting like we are still in a relationship! I know it's just sex so it's cool but she leaves in 2 days and she said she wants to see me for the last two days that's she here! What do I do if I want to get her thinking about getting back with me, do I just not see her now and ignore her and say I'm going out when I hinted that I might see her or just sleep with her the last two days?
A. Ignore her play the game and have her feeling negative thinking about u but probs think she wants u back. When she realises it was not u but the game she wanted it's over anyway.
B. Don't play a game, have fun with her and have her thinking positively that she still has fun with u. But still distance urself a little.
The second one may not end in tears. The first is destined to doom