What a man finds most attractive.

[tat]

What does a man find to be most attractive in a woman? No, not perfume, it is two good-looking women stood in the middle of a pub, just….. Only joking, couldn’t resist. But what is it that a man finds most attractive in a woman?

I think this is difficult to pin down because we all like varied bits about a woman, but essentially I think the main principle at play is the same, and this is what I think: that women are like flowers, there to be admired and smelt and shown and plucked and enjoyed. For her, all that mainly matters is that she is admired in this way, she enjoys being admired, she gets off on being admired. As long as this is happening she isn’t too bothered who is admiring her, the main thing is the admiration of herself. Of course, there will be a certain level of pickiness on her part, but by-and-large she just requires that she is admired.

This explains why ugly blokes can get fit women, indeed it explains also that there is a perverseness about an ugly/fat/whatever bloke getting to admire a beautiful woman because for him he is especially lucky, both he and she knows this……so the admiration effect is intensified in this way.

[markuk]

Man that was deep.

[Barney Stinson]

Your points are intetesting but not how I would think about this subject.

Being admired has many variables to a girl. My girlfriend has 3 stalkers in the city, they admire her but she wouldn't be (wasn't) thankful for it nor would she be flattered. If another stranger came upto her and showed admiration she'd walk on or do embarrassing shit to him.

Whereas another girl could be the complete opposite and craving admiration from anything that moves.

My point is that in the foundation people as a whole like admiration but the ways in which it is recieved, given and interpreted can vary significantly between various people and that variation can be broken down into subcontext like emotion, action, etcc. Literally thousands of variations

The mistake thinking you know what she wants and how she wants it.

[Shahanshah]

Men like girls who are either hot (pure looks), sexy (way they act) or easy (ugh ya know). Any other reason is just a rationalisation on to these or after one of these boxes are ticked.

Same with why girls like guys. It's all superficial bullshit. That 10 with the ugly boyfriend isn't because of his 'personality' it's some superficial thing that maybe isn't so obvious.

I'm friends with a lot of girls and when they talk about guys it's no different than guys talking about girls. Sure they like cool confident guys but that's nothing deep. And usually they like cool confident GOOD LOOKING/tall/built/nice hair or whatever. Luckily unless you are a real ugly fucker and broken, there's a lot of leeway and choice left for you.

Girls are like really time consuming, expensive, boring versions of a fleshlight.

[nova]

I like Asians

[Shahanshah]

Originally Posted by Redemption

Are fleshlights even good tho ? Like do they have the right temperature and stuff ?

Buy one and find out!

[Shahanshah]

And buy a prostate massager. Double barrell them.

[tat]

Originally Posted by markuk

Man that was deep.

Chong's Father Funny Up In Smoke (1978) scene - YouTube

[tat]

Originally Posted by Barney Stinson

Your points are intetesting but not how I would think about this subject.

Being admired has many variables to a girl. My girlfriend has 3 stalkers in the city, they admire her but she wouldn't be (wasn't) thankful for it nor would she be flattered. If another stranger came upto her and showed admiration she'd walk on or do embarrassing shit to him.

Whereas another girl could be the complete opposite and craving admiration from anything that moves.

My point is that in the foundation people as a whole like admiration but the ways in which it is recieved, given and interpreted can vary significantly between various people and that variation can be broken down into subcontext like emotion, action, etcc. Literally thousands of variations

The mistake thinking you know what she wants and how she wants it.

Hi Barney, going to give myself time to think about your post......will get back to u.

[tat]

Originally Posted by Shahanshah

Men like girls who are either hot (pure looks), sexy (way they act) or easy (ugh ya know). Any other reason is just a rationalisation on to these or after one of these boxes are ticked.

Same with why girls like guys. It's all superficial bullshit. That 10 with the ugly boyfriend isn't because of his 'personality' it's some superficial thing that maybe isn't so obvious.

I'm friends with a lot of girls and when they talk about guys it's no different than guys talking about girls. Sure they like cool confident guys but that's nothing deep. And usually they like cool confident GOOD LOOKING/tall/built/nice hair or whatever. Luckily unless you are a real ugly fucker and broken, there's a lot of leeway and choice left for you.

Girls are like really time consuming, expensive, boring versions of a fleshlight.

I'm going to have to think about your post, too. Will respond.