Is it a good thing to tell a woman that you are very kinky and a bit pervy, that you have a very specific fetish?

I think it definately is a good thing, firstly they love the idea that they are your fantacy ideal, secondly it bonds you both together in this 'secret', and thirdly you can really get into indulging your kinky desires.

And whilst I'm asking this, what do you think about the whole idea that a person is either a leg man or a titman? Do you think it falls into two distinct camps? Personally, I am a leg man, and tits don't really do much for me. Are other people like this? Are you either one or the other, or can you be both?

These days i love sharing my sordid fantasies with the ladies, even more so as, up until a couple of years ago, i thought this was something that was wrong to tell a girl. Fucking social conditioning.

As for legs and titties... I'm all about a fine piece of ass. But yeah, legs too, especially Asian chicks in stockings or long boots and hot pants with a bit of thigh on show.

Agree with Nova.
Even worse is to be in a relationship and not be true to yourself and your lady about what you want _ one of the reasons people go looking elsewhere.

nova. Yes, yes, yes, yes yes, I'm right with you. I was the same........yes, the social conditioning, but at least we have seen the light. But what a waste. And to be fair, I was skint, for a good few of my early years, I'm ok now, but those early years were hard. It didn't help. But a lot of it was me. Why did I not focus upon what I really liked.....stupid. I think about it these days. The thing is that I am a leg man, not just any legs, they are very specific. I don't know what it is, but a pair of them just turns me on so much. I wonder about this leg thing, which is my fetish because i am so into them, and I can remember my first awareness that such legs did it for me. I was about 8 years old. There was a girl. slightly older than me, who lived not that far away and I used to see her, glimpses of her here and there and this strange feeling came over me. I do actually wonder if maybe I latently want to be such a woman. To be honest I really would love to have a body like that, but then this is natural enough because it would mean that i would have the body of my dreams constantly there, and i would be able to be in love with myself. This all stands to reason. I can't begin to imagine how a man's body is ment to be desirable ( think that it isn't so much the man's body, it is that he desires to appreciate and smell the beautiful rose, and the woman gets off on being so desired). If i was a woman i would definately be a lesbian, no doubt, and i would want to make out with a woman just as super sexy as me, none of that butch stuff. Alas, I have a bloke's body and so have to keep my eyes open and try to touch such sexy bodies by getting them to let me.

Sugarspin, I do agree with what you said about how you should be true to yourself and your partner. It is a big thing with me is that because i really do not like anyone to get emotionally hurt, etc, It is selling your partner short and stealing their chance of a fulfilling life if you are not honest with them about what you like. It is a beautiful thing when two people are intimately honest with eachother and they get along with that, they can get really close and have lots of love and respect for eachother.

Hi Jaz, I don't understand your post. Can you please say what you mean in simple straightforward terms so that I can understand. Thanks

Redemption. My fetish? It is womens legs, but very specific ones. It is difficult to describe, but certainly thin, but they have to have a specific shape to them. I like quite knock-kneed in the mix. I would say a size 8, and a weight about 7.5 to 8 stone. I like the legs bare, but perhaps even more in certain types of trousers, esp jeans, straightleg jeans, but not too tight, usually.

I know this might not seem like a fetish, but it is with me. I recognise women by legs. I could do a police identity line up were there was just a line of women in jeans and I would know.

I think that the women know they have great legs. It is a problem in that many other blokes like them. They get a lot of attention. I am just another pebble on the beach to them, and they have too much going on to expect any type of fidelity, so one can only invest very shallowly.

I would like to settle down with someone, and i am capable of that.....happy just to look.....but they are just too hot, alas.

Do you have a fetish?