Hey everyone,

I'm new in this field but like us all I've decided to self-improve and live a better quality of life, starting with women. I haven't approached a girl on the street ever, and I'm getting to grips with doing this for the first time. I'm curious as to how people begin. Picture your first time doing this, do you go out deliberately to pick-up the woman you approach or do you literally just go over and speak as though you were speaking with any other human in the world? I may be all up in my head and maybe the only to cure for this is to crash and burn a few times.

So feel free to share your advice on this whether you're a master or a newbie, all advice will be appreciated.

Thanking you and Cheerio.

This is the essential question that this forum tends to focus on. If it helps, FYI women ARE just another human like you.

I literally use the same few lines on every girl that I approach, that way I don't need to think about what to say initially - my mind is on autopilot.

This makes approaching 50 times easier. You don't actually need to think what to say, as you say the exact same thing to every girl!

Once you understand that, you build some momentum in yourself. I do it by clicking my fingers - I strongly associate that with action.

...then I approach.