girl asks to buy her a drink
 

so we were in a fairly decent bar with a bunch of people last night with nice pockets of TRE (Target Enviroments), not necessarily on game and I mosied casually to the bar, chewing the cud with a girl with out with her birthday friends - wished happy birthday, shook hands, avoided being the entertainer for the group, kept it all low energy, talking over my shoulder back at them. She shortly came closer and asked looked me in the eyes and asked if I was going to buy her a drink - I instantly held out my hand for her money and pointed to the 2 lagers and said "this is mine and this one is my friends". One of her friends said "if your going to buy one for her, you have to buy one for all of us" - totally ignored the comment, like she never even said it, zero emotional spike. At the time I was in a zone of indifference, she was attractive but I didnt feel the need to pursue - maybe I was too buzzed out from the wine and the other girls I was out with.

I let her take a swig from the bottle and then took it back saying "whoa there, hold on". I turned my attention back to the bar while she was looking over at me and having a post-match conversation with her mates.

There are probably a lot of ways I could have turned the whole frame round onto her and the group about them wanting to buy me drinks ??

Opinions welcome.....

I make it a point never to buy a girl a drink, it seems cheap, like you're trying to buy her attention. Plus I've been out with girls who've been like that and its an instant turn off, I usually just walk off if a girl says that.

Do what TD does and make them do animal noises but in a really degrading way, "Get on your knees and beg for it like a dog".

yeah, I could tell her its a cock~tail - penis colada

I agree with Jaz, buy her a drink if you think she wants to fuck you at some point. Or tease her first, to get a better idea if she's into you, then buy it.

She was trying to make a dickhead out of u.

U played it well.

also

Knock all the 'zero emotional spike' shit off

it makes u look like a dork!

Just talk normally, were not in an episode of terminator.

Correction.

Don't buy a girl a drink if she

A, Asks you for it

B, to get her attention

If you are having a normal conversation and chatting. then by all means buy her a drink and she will probably offer to by yours instead

(which u should refuse, be a man and say IM BUYING IT, less of the lip)

"Knock all the 'zero emotional spike' shit off

it makes u look like a dork!

Just talk normally, were not in an episode of terminator."

yeah your right I'm a dork - only a dork in terms of my own understanding of who and what we are - energy and thought, being present in the moment and being fully aware of what is going on is key to success in every area of life

dont be fooled by my new user status - that only reflects the amount of time I have been a member on site and nothing more or less

have a great week

peace and love

anyone ever fallen for the
"can you hold my drink pls' from random hottie that instantly fucking dissapears into the twilight zone. the second u realise the glass is empty lols. once and never again.

i wasn't.