The Abundance mindset
Someone that has a abundance mindset doesn’t necessarily have to be getting laid. (at least not yet) The abundance mindset is the way a man thinks about success Some might call it a wealth mindset or a mindset of success, but it really has to do with what and how you think. Have you ever noticed what you spend most of your time thinking about?

Abundance Mindset and Thinking
Most people do not think for themselves, they are swayed by friends, family, media, advertisements and society as a whole. They allow whatever thought that pops into their head to control them. Unlike a man with an abundance mindset most people are not even aware of what they think, they just go through the day letting random thoughts control their life without ever examining or analyzing their thoughts.

The most important part of having an abundance mindset is the way you think. If you want to develop a abundance mindset you need to take a long hard look at what your think about most of the time. Very often you will see people that are complaining and talking about how little they have and wonder why they don’t have more abundance in their life. The answer is right in front of them, they are focusing on what they don’t have. The majority of their thoughts are concerned with lack and then they have the object of their focus, lack.

The thoughts you hold in your mind will create your reality. Look around and you will see what your thoughts have been up to this point in your life, was it a mindset of success or lack. If you are ready to make the choice to have a player mindset the first thing you need to do is pay attention to your thoughts. Ask yourself if your thoughts are thoughts of wealth, achieving success and abundance, if they are not then change them to success thinking, Change those thoughts by replacing them with thoughts and mental pictures of your goals already achieved and living an abundant and successful life.

Abundance mindset means that you think independently. You’re not influenced by media or society. You think for yourself, are positive thinking, control your thoughts 24/7 and focus on success. You constantly monitor your thoughts and replace those that don’t serve you, your thoughts will determine and create your reality. But you control your thoughts, so your ability to be successful is your choice. You can only hold and focus on one thought at a time, make it a productive thought for great success.

Start thinking like this and everything falls into place, you show no signs of neediness, you appear pre selected and your life feels fulfilled, women will sense your positivity and strength in the direction your reality projects and be compelled to join the path your on.

Interesting post, but I think you make changing the cognitive processes that your mind goes through sound a lot easier than it actually is.

If your mind is focused on what you don't have, or have never had, and this is making you feel helpless and inadequate, this is because your belief system is irrational.

Uncovering and challenging these negative beliefs is the key to changing your mindset. Becoming aware of the self defeating nature of these irrational beliefs and asking yourself searching questions to discover whether they are rational and logical will help a great deal!

For example, "Why do I have to be liked by everybody?" Someone with social anxiety will likely be conscious of what other people think about them, and so the aim of cognitive therapy is to bring them to a realistic conclusion. "It's impossible to be liked by everybody, but most people like me".
Anyone interested in this look up Albert Ellis or Aaron Beck.

your right, i guess i don't take into account all the self development I've put myself through, 1904hours of audio at work including nlp, hypnosis, spiritualists, motivational, sociology, psychology

Tonight will be my 238th night out in a row finding 10 new strangers to talk too.
when i joined here i had not left my house for 2 years after a nasty breakup left me questioning who i was and how strong my reality is, so although its easy to for me to say be authentic and be your self i would not want to be my authentic self 6 months ago

the main things that have stuck in my head is

the past is gone and cant be changed no matter how much you want it to be

the future is in your head and will always be different to how you expect it to pan out, so thats a useless thought

worry is a waste of emotional resources

women want sex more than men

and even if everyone in the world loved you there would still be someone pissed off that everyone likes you

these are the main factors i live by and make me smile as i walk into a bar book shop or where ever i chose to meet an amazing person i wish to bring into my world.

If you've ever watched the jeffy show, check out the outcome dependent section. You focus on the outcome, you begin to live in your head....just treat each interaction as something amusing on the go. The more that happens, the easier it is to just give off that unwired vibe.

"Tonight will be my 238th night out in a row finding 10 new strangers to talk too".... lol
are u one of this guys ..." big issue sir !!!" ???
i can do it 3 times a week top .(if there is no rain in Bristol)
if u r serius , your mob. phone book was full after first 100 days .and all the money u had was spent for condoms . good luck

haha pavel, yes i have some dam interessting people in my phone book at the mo, the interactions i have made keeps me busy, right now i've just got back in and there is a sweet 17 yearold looking at the back of this laptop out of the corner of her eye playing with her hair in a seductive manner that i met at a christian party i was invited to last monday.

Nice one corrupting those christian girls!

or saving them from corruption (oh no tf didnt just say that)

I actually find it interesting how we not can have "an abundance mindset" just by observing the world.

There are about 3,5 billion women on this plant, so that leaves hundreds of millions you would potentially be interested in.

They walk past you every day, in school, on the subway, in the workplace, on the steeet and so on.