Hey Guys

I'm 25 and have been going out with my girlfriend for 5 years now, my only regret is that I have not had a whole lot of other experiences with women outside of my girlfriend, and I worry that I'm gonna get old and regret not having enough fun in life, as I do miss the frill of the chase etc.

Anyhow, the main reason why I'm here. I REALLY fancy my girlfriends very attractive and pretty best friend, and I do reckon that she likes me also, well here are a few reasons:

- she always finds what I say to be funny and always agrees with me, even when GF does not,
- we have tonnes and tonnes in common,
- she always wants to talk with me and seems to put a lot of effort into making fun conversation,
- she has commented to my GF that she like my hair, body and thinks I am handsome on separate occasions,
- she likes tall men, who are muscular, bit of a gym/health nut, maybe tanned, are practical, hands on, traditional, manly, intelligent and adventurous, I am ALL of these things..
- she knows that I have a MAJOR MAJOR thing for ginger girls, and has just dyed her hair Ginger, and made jokes to my GF about how she better stay away from me because she knows i love Ginger girls..
- on two separate group nights out, she has been v sexy dancing, and on both occasions she made multiple attempts to get me to dance with her, inc grinding etc, lots and lots of eye contact and talking the whole night,
- she also made a side comment whilst talking about salsa with my GF that she would like to sexy salsa dance with me,
- my girlfriend has asked on two occasions now whether there is anything going on between me and her friend,
- she has invited me to socialise with her at her house on multiple occasions when my girlfriend is away or at work,
- when she camped at our place for several weeks, she regularly left v v sexy lingerie hanging around all over the place, almost like she was teasing me,
- she has been single for almost a year now and is know for being a bit of a nympho, so is probably v horny at the moment,
- this might be the biggest clue, she has actually ASKED my girlfriend in the past about having a threesome, as in myself, my girlfriend and her. My girlfriend turned here down politely.
- I accidentally saw her getting changed once when we were opposite each other in a mixed changing rooms, I saw here almost naked when she left the door partially open right opposite me, and she didn't seem that bothered when we made eye contact for a split second before I politely looked away.
- she has DEFINATELY caught me looking at her body at least once before when she wore something super tight and sexy, and she didn't seem to mind and actually seemed to want to make loads of conversation, even though I was the one who was saying that I had to go somewhere,
- i have this silly running joke with my girlfriend that I am a massive player and that I have loads of wenches or hoes (I'm not a player at all), however my GFs friend finds it amusing if I call her one of my wenches and we make mild sexual jokes or references about one another.
- she just seems genuinely quite flirty sometimes, maybe when texting or chatting, just a sense that I get.

There are other things as well, however as this is already ridiculously too long, I shall leave it at those for now.

I know this sounds v childish, But my question is: Do you reckon she does have interest or is just being friendly, as to be fair she is a v friendly girl. I also have a tendancy to read into things too much..

Me and my girlfriend has discussed having an open relationship before, and we would both like to have a bit more fun whilst we are in our 20s, and I have to admit that her friend would be at he top of my list, but I would not leave my girlfriend for her or be unfaithful.

Also both by girlfriend and her friend are bisexual and so I have a secret little fantasy of us all having sex with each other seperately or as a threesome.

What do you reckon i should do? stay away from her friend, approach the subject of an open relationship or end it with my GF.

I must admit though, although my GF is not as attractive as her friend, she i OK, and she does have an amazing personality and is a perfect match in that area. I don't think i would start a relationship with her friend, i would mostly just want to bang her senseless every now and again.

Thanks

Max

Welcome to the forum mate, you should introduce yourself in the introductions section first, but never the matter, this post is interesting.

You sound like you've got plenty of options open to you. I would say go for it openly, talk to your GF, explain that your want to play the field a bit, and that you'd like to include her friend.

Worst case scenario, you're GF doesn't agree, you two finish then you bang her friend (she sounds interested).

I feel sorry for your girlfriend.

No mention of the biggest factor here, your girlfriend's relationship with her friend. I assume you feel it best not to think about this, but this will be your biggest obstacle. So, forget it.

But don't fear, the world is your oyster, as I think it's time to get out there and game some girls. Broaden those horizons man. There's fucking tonnes of girls out there, and loads of them will be hotter than your girlfrend's friend.

Not so sure about this fantasy you have. It likely wouldn't work out. But absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to get as much pussy as possible at your stage in life. Decide how you feel about your gf and be honest with her if you have the desire to move on and bang other chicks. You don't want have regrets about not doing what you wanted.

Hey guys,

Thanks for the replies. Yeah this is a difficult situation and i'm certainly not going to make any rash decisions.

I think i will most likely just not act on things and calm it down and then maybe later see if any kind of open relationship is a possibility with my GF, as it don't want to break up or anything.

However i do know that open relationships often don't work, and she probably wouldn't be up for it and certainly be not be ok with me banging her best friend.

She is a problem though, be cause she is so damn hot and she gets distracting.

A couple of incidents that i forgot to mention was that one night when she was staying at ours for several weeks, i couldn't sleep, and woke up around 2am. For about 15 mins, i swear that i could her sexy moaning noises from the room next door (living room) were she was sleeping. And i have to assume that she must have been masturbating.

And then, and this sounds like BS, but its true, i went into the living room the next morning, and there was a box of tissues and a pair of sexy lacy panties plus other usual stuff, right next to the sofa were she had been sleeping. Being the pervy fucker that i am i inspected her panties, and they were lightly soiled/stained on the inside and smelt musty. I immediately had to have a wank.

Also, on three of four occasions she would get undressed/changed in the living room which is right opposite my office were i usually sit all day, and she would leave the door wide open. On three occassions i turned around casually and accidentally saw her pretty much in just her lingerie and almost saw her topless twice. It's almost as if she was deliberately getting changed were she knew i might see her and leaving the door wide open etc.

She is either in to me, or she is just the worlds biggest cock tease..

Well, the first part of this doesn't sound like your own experiences of trying an open relationship, and more an assumption that it just can't be a possibility. However I think it's hard to propose something like this once your into the lovey dovey stuff.

And no, I very much doubt she'd jump for joy at you fucking her BEST friend.

End it with ur girl

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BUT, don't try fuck her friend, for gawd's sake.

Don't shit where you eat.