When ever i have got chatting to a girl and arranged to meet up with her, I have never been flaked on. Ive been turned down before but never before once ive sealed a deal as such.

I was chatting to the girl in question the night before on facebook and she said "oh yeah 2pm at costa coffee is good for me ." Great i thought...its on.

Wednesday arrived. Got changed and funked up then text her saying, "im just on my way now...see you in 20 "

Then I get a reply just as im leaving the house saying, "Hey...I was wondering if we could meet another time this week as I'm not feeling great.. N your text just woke me lol. I feel a little crap x x"

Now im all for giving people a chance in making excuses but she mentioned the night before she was feeling ill moments before i said good night to her.... AND, if i hadnt been online that night (i signed in at 11.30pm btw) and chatted to her, (I initiated the convosation online as i was on for 10mins and she didnt say hello) Im not sure the date would have gone ahead! Reason being because the first text i sent that day asking her out, she didnt reply too.

So far i havnt replied to her flaking message or spoke to her. Just need some advice on how to play this one out, because i do connect with her really well and would like to meet her etc. What should i do!!?? Am i being to harsh on her flaking and just rearrange another date? or leave her to get in touch with me....

This is something that tends to happen with talking to girls online or meeting them in the 'virtual world'. If you have her number just call her up you'll be able to gauge her interest through her voice and tonality. Also set your sights on meeting other women and not putting 'all your eggs in one basket', may I recommend the following post...

http://www.puaforum.co.uk/seduction-...ishing-xx.html

Oh i didnt meet her "online mate" met her in the street while doing some day game so i have physically seen her and spoke to her before. I just happened to be speaking to her on facebook thats all, didnt mean to confuse anybody there!

But yeah i have other girls on the go, i just take it personally as i just dont think she was tellin the truth.

Ok mate. Well I'd probably give her the benefit of the doubt in the first instance and arrange another date, if again she's being flakey and you smell a rat then I'd just cut contact and if she reinitiates contact with you then act accordingly.