Ok so I find myself in a situation, thanks to PUA, that I have never been in before. I going to be dating one girl and most likely dating another at the same time if I choose too.

And I have other options open to me but I think two's enough for starters. So, how do you go about dating more than one girl at a time? I read that integrity is the key. Be honest from the start but how do you go about bringing this up and at what point? I mean say I have a day 2 coming up and it's our first 'date' would I wait for an f-close and then bring it up? Or would you go for a couple of dates and wait until you figure your secure in a relationship and she's hooked? Personally I'd go for the former as it'd be shitty to drop that on her if she thought you were monogamous and I imagine it would probably blow up in your face.

My fear is obviously losing the one bird in my hand and ending up with 2 in the bush. Or do you just not worry and if she can't handle it then you say 'Oh well, she just wasn't right for me'

lol, i myself found myself in this situation and its a strange one... can be slightly daunting, but actually quite satisfying... after months of struggling to get a girl, i suddenly had 3 at one point....

i basically, played it like a dead fish and was really chillaxed with them... i knew they were all into me, so what i did was nothing... thats right nothing... i literally rolled along with whatever they suggested, and the keener of the 3 prevailed through her persistency, and the other 2 eventually backed off, and i was left with the best of the three!!! and i still have the option to recall either of the other 2, as i made sure to be fun/friendly with them....

I told all three originalyl how important my work is to me (no lie) and they all respect that, so if i fancy catching up with any of them, i can just say that work isnt as busy (not far from the truth) fancy catching up again?!


But... also DO ENJOY havign more than one girl after you, its a really great feeling!

Picard.

@ Picard, did you actually tell them you intended on seeing other girls at the same time?

no, but i didnt lean towards any exclusivity... also if they had asked, i woudl have said that i wasnt looking for that!

One of them, i said that i wasnt lookgn for anythign too serious, just fun etc! she took it well and understood!

@picard Sounds reasonable to me. I wouldn't feel compelled to tell any of them if exclusivity isn't what you're after. However as soon as you get to the point where you feel you're having to lie and make-up stories/excuses to prevent them finding out or the other person wants more than just abit of fun then it's best to come clean.

If a relationship aint what you want from either of them...or you just feeling the situation out...abundance is never a bad thing. You'll probably showcase more value.

It would only blow up if you mislead either or both of them into thinking it might be exclusive.