this seems to be the most logic behaviour in dhis situation.
I would go for that.
Is good field to practis...

well last night was summed up in two words....EPIC and FAIL..

started off meetin girls in their house before headin out, got on fine laughing and havin fun. got to the club and walked around a bit, things seemed to be going well, we found a booth and we were talking, ran into a girl who is into me, i dont find any real attraction for her and so i find it hard to have any sexual escalation as its not real i dont 'feel it'. she also has an annoyin friend who i cant stand tbh, so i sub communicate little interest in talkin to them, the interaction goes stale and i say i'll see them later. i go back to my other girlm8s, they continue to pound the drink and decide to go on the dance floor, i want no part of that, with state not particularly high and wasnt in the mood, this was teh turning point in the night. by leavin them to go on the dance floor, i separated myself from them, and spent the next hour walkin around gettin a water and lookin for people i might know. i looked for opportunities to open sets, i wud be standin beside a set and instead of approachin immediately i wud think for question whether i shud approach them or not, in these seconds i become some creepy guy beside them workin up the courage to go over and ask some opinion on somethin, i didnt want to feel like that guy so i wud move on. i had was standin at the bar a nice little blonde moves beside me, i ask her to get me a water if she gets to order first, she says sure, i say thanks and she stand touching her hair and obviously hopin i wud say somethin else, i get the water give her a smile and say thanks bye... i mean i have been readin game for almost 2 years, i have had some nights were u cud call me a fkin pua with no question, but i mean to watch myself act like a super afc is just so annoyin, its like i am out of my body watchin this bullshit happen.

i have one more mild interaction with a few girls but dont try and continue the conversation, i am basically just a loner walkin around the club at this point and cant get myself to approach by myself sober, absolutely ragin with myself. i finally see me girl m8s to my joy and run over hug them for dear life and spend the rest of the night with them, i get noticed alot more at this point have bit more fun, i make strong eye contact with a girl but was pulled away by my girlm8s, i take one of my friends onto the dance floor for some social proofin and hope i can find a hb somewere on the dance floor and get her usin my girlm8 as momentum, but the dance floor is shoulder to shoudler, no room to do any of my nice spin moves its also overwhelmingly hot so we leave the dance floor. the girl i was with wants to go when the club is over, the rest want to go to another club, i say my goodbyes and bring my friend home.

wat i learned.

1. practice is the most important thing, i can sit and talk about what to do in certain situations and know all these really great things to say but if im not practicin being approaching and tryin these out then its about as useful as a condom with a hole in it.

2. i woke up with a good feelin, not an overwhelming annoyance, ergo my subconscious must be happy about somethin i did last night.

3. its really got me in the determined mood to go out and try again. i believe going out 3 nights in a row wud be best, so u can make up for failures the night before, i have done this once in the past and it worked so well i improved every night.

4. a wingman goes along way. being sober, on my own and expectin so much of myself, put alot of pressure one me, with no wingman to help push me into interactions, to relieve pressure when talkin to girls and a good m8 u can hav a good time with.

i really did fail in my opportunity to make the most of last night, wasnt wat i hoped for but i did learn from it. think i need a bit of a slap tbh..

mate, these thigns happen

my genral sumamryf rom ur entire first half '3 second rule'...

know your openers, and if u see a girl, 3 seconds, ur either talkin to them, or out of sight!

you idd a good honest self-assessment, so i cant say u werent trying, u had a good attempt,. nex titme, battle that AA thing. tyr the first half-dozen challenges out of Rules Of The Game by day to shake out the cobwebs to overcome the AA!

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