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18-01-2010, 08:20 AM
You will find that you will go through peaks and trough's with this. I did the same where i went out every Friday and Saturday night for 4 months solid, and then go a bit dis-heartened with it and took a couple of weekends off and then was back into it feeling re-energized. Keep it, everyone hits a wall at some time, its thoughs that break through it that succeed.
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18-01-2010, 09:45 AM
Don't give up Fox. You're trying to change a lifetime of doing things wrong with girls (this is why most of us are here right?) so it's not going to happen overnight. As frustrating as the bad times are, they are equally as important in your learning as the good. You are filtering out the girls you don't want to spend your time with, this is worthy.
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18-01-2010, 10:55 AM
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if i were you, just put this one down to expereicne and go out, sarge some places, find someone new... Pic.
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18-01-2010, 11:44 AM
Fox I hear you man. It's a roller-coaster ride this game, you're gonna take alot of hits. Your successes will often be out numbered by your failures, however those successes will dwarf those failures.
I was seeing a girl recently and it didn't work out, similarly to the girl you were talking about she was always seeking validation, telling me how much turnover she made for her company last year, how big her bonus was this week like I gave a shit and then randomly texting me to tell me what some random guy had said to her. Bizzarre. Don't know why some women feel they need to validate themselves in that sort of way, whereas if the script was flipped and a guy behaved in that way they would more than likely run a mile!
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18-01-2010, 02:47 PM
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If you stop her and won't accept this you'll show that you won't be phased and you are not like other guys and that "you have balls, I like balls" You have balls, I like balls As for flakey girls what you describe most men would love! Meet a girl have a bit of sex then after a few weeks it fizzles out on to the next one. Keep the faith brother it sounds like you're doing ok to me, it takes some ages to get the balls to approach. Do it for the fun of it, when it's not make it fun. "It is if he puts his balls between the strings, and strums himself to ecstasy!"
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19-01-2010, 05:43 PM
its a good subject to bring up, in my experiance its been very random, i've met amazing people and they turned out to be putting up a pretend shield of normality then cracked uder the pressure of not knowing what they want from life
then had crazy stalkers i've ran from for months i fall too under a moment of weakness turn out to be absolute jems in relationships sometimes i've found the perfect partner then i'll end it because it seems wierder than dating a girl with emotinal issues, allmost to good to be true. i once split with a girl because i couldnt find anything wrong with her. maybe these are issues i need to evaliate about my self but i do know one thing, that is every girl i have ever dated has been amazing its been like a massive rollercoaster going up and down and spinning around, it has its highs and it has its lows but you enjoy every bit of the ride from start to finish. or effortlessly; its constituent values are not achieved by instinct or magic or wishful thinking. Human beings must act in order to achieve our lives and happiness, but only certain actions will be effective. Unlike lower animals, we choose our actions
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23-01-2010, 04:59 PM
When it comes to the girls you never seem to be able to keep around. I have a theory of why that is, and that is probably because you try to keep them around to the extent that you´re not diplaying your natural self anymore but simply try "to do the right thing for her to like you and stick around".
How to Be Yourself: 8 steps - wikiHow Some article like this can seem cheesy, but it is a good check off list to make sure you are actually displaying you when you meet the girls. Trust me, it is incredibly hard displaying someone elses personality and in the end, it always fails sooner or later because you can´t keep up the charade.
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