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Originally Posted by Cefai
Recently she got a new boyfriend and I later found out from her friend that she liked me. I was totally suprised. There was nothing I can think of that would give me clues of this. IOI's or otherwise. Big opportunity missed.
...It wasn't until started kissing my neck that I actually realised she was in to me. I had no clue up until that point.
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All this surprise you are experiencing is a result of you doubting your attractiveness to girls, not a lack of your recognition in this. At the end of the day why should you be looking for the girl to give you approval?
It’s time for you to switch roles in your head and start considering that when you see a girl that you like that you are going to be the one giving her the IOIs… but not in an indicative sense, far from it, by taking the initiative and escalating - so I guess you’d call it EOI/ Escalation of Interest
Oh and nice work digging out those classic quotes Kowalski.