While i have been learning about Attraction,qualification,disqualification, things like that, am now that the point where i can watch things like the pickup artist,keys to the vip, and i can point out the things they did wrong and make suggestions, just like the judges can.

Yet my love life is still not handled, there are guys i no that are not as good looking as me,yet they were doing well, dispite having no real game, not having the knowledge that i had in certain areas, They had there love lifes handled

so i figured i must be doing somthing wrong at a basic level, and i have been messing up at a very basic level, i skipped the basic stuff and went right for the advanced stuff, learning to run before i could walk,had i concentrated on the basic stuff,i may have never needed to learn what i have,but am glad i did because its been fun.

The problem is very simple, i would get ioi's from girls when i was out, or in work,lots of ioi's in work. But i never did anything about it, never made the effort to talk to them, i always felt like i had nothing to say to them, when all i had to do was show interest in them, in there lifes, be social, its all seems very simple to me now,and fear was an issue, but before i couldnt see it.

I have had alot of fun using openers, attraction material when i was out, i found i got alot better at using them. i Believe in having canned material,jokes and stuff like that, just not to rely on them, there has to be somthing more.

So anyone whos abit thick like me, get the innergame stuff, and basics sorted first.

Have recently become awear of these things, and have already started to act on my new found awearness, and the changes have been in progress for a few months now, can feel my attitude and confidence changing, i think i have successfully reprogrammed myself, so for now i will take my focus off the night game, and work with the opportunities i have else where.

Once, a university professor went to visit a Zen master.

While the master quietly served tea, the professor talked continuously about Zen, his thoughts, his ideas, his understands and his questions…

As he spoke the master poured the visitor’s cup to the brim, but then kept pouring. The professor watched the overflowing cup until he could no longer restrain himself

“It’s full! No more will go in!”
the professor blurted.

“You are like this cup,”
the master replied,
“How can I show you Zen unless you first empty your cup