Need Assistance: 48 hours to help... -
25-12-2009, 11:50 PM
ok quick summary
in the quest of opening up options, i tried POF and got chatting with a girl, hit it off, and with minimum effort got a #close, then foned str8 away got into a good fun convo... got 1st date close, sorted.
anyways, she gives me her surname (for facebook) and i find out shes completely NOT what i expected.
now i dont mean to be harsh and judgemental but....
Facially: Outstanding, very pretty indeed but...
Body: Very Overweight (not indicated at all by her headshots; cheeks, shin neck all showed no signals of this)
Now dont get me wrong, i like a little meat on the bone, infact she has incredible baps! however, she is simply too big, and im afraid it causes me to lose attraction!
I arranged to see her monday night! So i got less than 3 days to try and get a good exit strategy...
i really think its cruel-to-be-kind in this case as she wants more than i do tbh, and ive just lost interest! Sorry again for being shallow, but every man has his likes and dislikes!
what would you reccommend i say (sooner rather than later; hate last-minute letdowns) so that i can stop the date form happening, without merely postponing it, but at the sametime, avoid hurting her feelings!!???
ANY help would be appreciated...
thanks in advance gentlemen!!
Picard.
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