going to start some day game this week, first realy time ive done it and am determined to see results, anyway i'll be christmas shoppin so i ll be in lots of shops, was think of an opener i heard a while ago. goes like this:

me: hey wat do u think looks more attractive on me x or y

girl: x

me: ok i'll get y then......


wat was the reason for choosing the opposite to her suggestion? anyone know this opener, or has anyone any other good openers to use in shops?

cheers

Yup - she won't expect you to say that and so it is something 'different' for her and you can use it as an in with her. Happy shopping Bushido ;-)