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Default Making friends? - 27-07-2013, 01:07 PM

Hey guys quick question (sorry for my bad english as it's not my mother tongue) :

I'm 23 and I have a huge problem : Making male friends. The M3 model gave me the tool to attract/make friends with almost any women I meet in social siuations, thanks to its reliable evolutionary psychology foundation and that's cool.

However I'm terrible at connecting and making friends with guys despite my efforts. I tried almost anything : being funny, DHVing, teasing ... Now don't get me wrong I usually have fun with them but I really feel like something is missing that would make them think "damn this guy is cool I wish I could hang out with him again".

So in order to keep it simple I will formulate my question like this :
"We know thanks to the MM, how to take a woman from the stage where she has no interest in you whatsoever to the stage where she just digs your company and affection (via a set of rules/principles like S&R value, comfort, body language...). But how could we use another model to make guys that have no interest in you to want to hang out with you ? What are the friendship switches ? "

As a side note I'm absolutely not gay, the reason I'm asking this is because I've seen a couple of guys enter my group and shine so much (whitout even DHVing) that when they left the whole vibe collapsed and they were kind of missed. I wanna be that kind of guy.
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Default 27-07-2013, 01:17 PM

Be normal and have fun, get to know people.


Know Thyself.

Have fun.
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Default 27-07-2013, 03:26 PM

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That was one of the funniest things I've read in ages. Thank you.

In short, you are doing it all wrong. It is impossible to create any social relationships that way. It is outside of the definition of social. These are business transactions you are describing and, therefore, these are business relationships you are creating.

I feel like a girl saying "You couldn't pick me up with that shit", but seriously no one coming from the angle you are coming from would get to be my friend. I'd smell that shit a mile off and call you on it. It is weird to think that way about trying to make friendships and meet lovers.

Others will explain more too.

Peace,

kowalski
Well let's put it this way : you meet 10 guys in a social situation, and out of the ten you have to pick one to be your friend ? On what criteria would you decide ? If I know those criteria and I want to be your friend, I can come up to you and everything would go well
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Default 27-07-2013, 06:58 PM

You're being way too analytical about this. The one common quality all my friends have is that they're fun. You aren't going to be much fun if you're constantly going through some process in your mind when you're around people.This isn't like writing code or proving a theorem, it's just having a laugh man.


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But I'm tryin' to give you a million dollars worth of game for $9.99

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Default 28-07-2013, 09:56 PM

Meeting people doesn't have to be so hard.


girls just wanna have fun
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Default 29-07-2013, 06:46 PM

Dear M3 tool

I will be your friend

I have lots of positives to offer you in your life

<3 me

Ps this was not a sarcastic tone


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Default 29-07-2013, 09:10 PM

This is not difficult. Forget about all that logical stuff. Just show a genuine interest in people you meet. All people you meet, don't judge people, get to know them. Don't fake showing an interest in people, that's not the same, you have to BE interested in people.

You'll find you have things in common with some people, talk about those things.

All of the above will be assisted if you have some interests other than reading books with methods on how to have sexual intercourse with women.

Mark


Realise deeply the present moment is all you ever have. Make the Now the primary focus of your life. Eckhart Tolle
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Default 29-07-2013, 10:34 PM

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Don't fake showing an interest in people, that's not the same, you have to BE interested in people.
That's so relevant when it comes to meeting girls. The amount of times I've pretended to take an interest in what a girl says when i don't care, just because I thought I could get laid by being the dumb ass nice guy. Of course now I see the opposite becomes true and she fucks the guy who told her she was boring.


girls just wanna have fun
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