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Originally Posted by kowalski
That was one of the funniest things I've read in ages. Thank you.
In short, you are doing it all wrong. It is impossible to create any social relationships that way. It is outside of the definition of social. These are business transactions you are describing and, therefore, these are business relationships you are creating.
I feel like a girl saying "You couldn't pick me up with that shit", but seriously no one coming from the angle you are coming from would get to be my friend. I'd smell that shit a mile off and call you on it. It is weird to think that way about trying to make friendships and meet lovers.
Others will explain more too.
Peace,
kowalski
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Well let's put it this way : you meet 10 guys in a social situation, and out of the ten you have to pick one to be your friend ? On what criteria would you decide ? If I know those criteria and I want to be your friend, I can come up to you and everything would go well