First of all thanks for the advice to any1 who replied to my last thread

The dillema of "Or are we too good friends" certainly is a difficult one. To recap on my ongoing dillema: I've been workin with a girl who I've known for years (but have hardly seen for about the past 4 years) been glad to see eachother. Then went out 4 a couple of drinks a few times. And ended up kissing one night (very drunk). To follow this up I pretty much carried on as I woz before. But for one reason or another I didn't see much of her for a few weeks. Then a few weeks later we both stayed 4 a drink after work and she came bac to mine. We got pissed, had a laugh and she stayed over but nothing happened. (Although I think things may have been different if I had a free house, she seemed uncorfortable with the idea of other people being in the house).
After this I decided that I wasn't going to put too much effort into chasing her and concentrated on other targets for a few weeks. Someone replied to my last thread that touching is the way to initiate the transfer from friends to something more, and I have tried this wen I have seen her and it seems to only do positive things, but I have still not got anywhere near the f/close. We havn't even talked about the kiss we had!
Anyway she text me a couple of times this week (which isn't really like her) tellin me how she's fed up and a bit down, and we've said we're gonna hav a few drinks on after work. This may be my opportunity, and I know it's just a case of grabbing my balls and going 4 it, but the right way 2 go about it is wot I need to discover.
This is where the dillema of "Or are we to good friends" becomes a difficult one. I'm pretty sure she thinks she thinks we cud be more than friends and the past few months wud suggest so. But then u start to think worst case senario and I wouldn't want to ruin any friendship, but I am 100% sure I wan to go for it. But am still unsure how, any advice welcome!!! Cheers 4 listening

Just be your normal self when you are with her and dont stressed yourself thinking about the f-close. Just as before, escalate to kiss her. Whatever you did then worked, so carry on doing the same thing. I always assume on a "date", once I get the proper kiss, it is a done deal and more often than not my assumptions are true.
I dont blame her for being uncomfortable with people in the house, figure out the logistics. Her place maybe? But most often than not the logistics can be a deal breaker.

Good luck mate. Want to read your next post to say you bump her...

more of the same.

you have had success with her so far, so stick to what works... physical contact and escalation are essential.

logistics - plan ahead, give yourself some options to help you continue/escalate the situation...

if shes going on about 'being down etc' and has kissed u before, then theres obviously an element of attraction there, which could be a signal of things to come... provided you be cool, and dont blow it!

lol.... you wont blow it! stick to what works, escalate and close!