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Default Strange reaction from direct approach? - 07-12-2009, 05:50 PM

I thought I’d do my first field report, actually its more of a question then a report, I have been really interested in direct game as opposed to indirect (Which I have been doing to little success till now) and tried my first direct approaches – The first went well, the girl was married (Should have checked for a ring), but she was really friendly and said she liked what I did and it made her day, so she walked off smiling (Which was a great feeling too, something indirect game hadn’t given me in the past), although the second one wasn’t so good. I stopped a woman and told her she was beautiful and absolutely meant it, but she just huffed and then even after stopping, walked away. I have no idea why, which kind of put me on a downer. Another old woman heard me and laughed and said something unlucky, but well done for trying. Haha which was still something good, although I cannot understand why a woman reacts like that, she stopped and was fine, moment I called her beautiful she just huffed and started walking – Any thoughts? Would really help. Thanks
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Default 07-12-2009, 06:53 PM

You threw yourself at her mate. The problem was probably more with your delivery more than what you said. Kudos for the balls though man, keep at it!


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Default 09-12-2009, 11:38 AM

I agree with Adam. You will get totally random responses sometimes.
If you come back and say "I did 20 approaches, and 10 did this" then it'd be a different story.

There could be one of many reasons for this, she may have got hugely embarassed. It could well be the first time anyones just bowled up to her in the street complementing her. It may have freaked her out.
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Default 10-12-2009, 11:49 AM

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There could be one of many reasons for this, she may have got hugely embarassed. It could well be the first time anyones just bowled up to her in the street complementing her. It may have freaked her out.
Yep. There could be a million reasons behind it. The most likely being your delivery, but lets face it, some people just aren't in the mood to be talking about how beautiful you think they are. She might have been having one of those shitty days when you just feel like smashing something up with a cricket bat , or maybe she had the shits or a headache or her period etc etc. Either way it's no big deal mate, just one girl out of billions.


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Default 16-12-2009, 08:10 PM

Good for you anyway mate. she most probably got home kick of her shoes sat down and thought shit I am a total bitch. But remember the prettier they are the more often they are told it so its not original. Next time you see a really hot women tell her she is totally georgeuos but its a shame she's not your type or its a pitty your staying away from women for a while and see where it goes. Good man anyway, its all in the numbers.
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Default 17-12-2009, 11:00 AM

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But remember the prettier they are the more often they are told it so its not original.
I don't think it happens as much as people assume. Most men are too scared to even speak to a girl in the day, never mind have the balls to be honest and tell them what they think of them. It's also irrelevant how original the words that come out of your mouth are. It's all about how you say it and act.

Like Flake & Kowalski say, you may have been coming across as value seeking and looking for a response from her. Next time compliment the girl you like, but have in mind that you are not after a reaction from her. Instead move the conversation on before she can say anything, i.e. ask her what her name is or what she is up to.


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Default Direct indirect - 22-12-2009, 07:37 PM

You cant please everyone, no matter how good you are at game,
your assuming that it was your fault maybe she had a shit day who cares.

The good thing with Indirect game is becouse you can see the steps of attraction,
the thing good about direct is its quick, but only after one has made him self grat with bodylanguage, aura, language can one really use it to full effect, dont throw away Indirect becouse when fused together they are both as powerfull.

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You cant please everyone, no matter how good you are at game,
your assuming that it was your fault maybe she had a shit day who cares.

The good thing with Indirect game is becouse you can see the steps of attraction,
the thing good about direct is its quick, but only after one has made him self grat with bodylanguage, aura, language can one really use it to full effect, dont throw away Indirect becouse when fused together they are both as powerfull.

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Well said Will. Practice and perserverance will tell you a lot more than one good or bad attempt. Keep trying.


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