Cheers K I will try to give it a little more detail but I've been trying all sorts of ways of going about the interaction...
My main two tendencies for gaming are these:
- Dance floor game (little talking or at-least little heard)
- Normal game in the queue (I try to talk to every girl thats near my position in the queue to the venue)
The reason I do this is because all the venues in my area are too loud to game inside unless you literally goto a pub which I'm not quite comfortable with yet plus the standard of girls seems lower...
I have a problem with AA In the club... not so much in the queue for some reason... I think because I know they are all bored and I tend to have a high success rate if I go find one of the people I met later on in the night. But altho I think I have pretty much sorted that out from watching and reading loads of shit now but I haven't been out in a little to test this so let me just explain my practiced approach.
To manage my problem with AA I use my dancefloor game... I basically dress well I'm not bad looking so this obviously helps and I get my state really pumped... I genuinely try to have a great time with just my friends because I find that it gets girls approaching me and trying to get my eye contact which basically clears my AA...
I know it would be better to just open myself, and Im working on that but I get approached a good 3/4 times a night just doing this so its pretty cool and if I play it right and don't skrew things up (which I usually do after K-closing people) I manage to get numbers k-close pretty much everyone of them.
So for example... This one girl I actually managed to take home a couple of weeks ago... she was pretty fit... really small which Im pretty attracted too (this sounds terrible but she was 2 years older than me :P). I got her to come home this was the first time I had this success with a total stranger... I managed to go from kissing on the couch to laying on my bed, me on top kissing... Tried to move it forward, Reached
LMR and then didn't even bother to try to get passed it because I felt the nerves getting to me and I was already chuffed with what I had achieved...
Got her number she seems happy enough texting me ect seems really into me to be honest but I made 2 dates with her and she told me the first one her phone died and the 2nd she was ill... The thing with it is that its the same with all the girls I feel like it might be genuine excuses because they are happy enough to continue talking to me and happy enough to set up other dates... then they seem to drop out on the last day every time! Its so frustrating because its taking me longer to get past this because I don't get much time free and each of them is taking a full day... Like if they said no before the last day I would make other arrangements but they tend to say like a hour before... pisses me off...
Second example... Queue game a while back... I got say 10 girls all talking to me over the space of 30/40 minuets in a really long queue i got stuck in a while ago and i got 6 people on facebook from it (btw I was clearly fully pumped with state and they all fucking loved me... I was truly sex-worthy that night) but this was when i first got into game... I went in and started getting with some other girl I was already seeing... now i got these 6 girls on facebook... I then got 3 of there phone numbers (The better ones). And when I seen one of them out she came straight over and was literally trying to seduce me there and then in the club. It turned me totally off even tho she was pretty hot. I totally blew her off and then later received loads of texts along the lines of "where did you go? come back to mine it will be fun
" ect ect ect... now at the time i was just like wtf is this girl and turned if off... next day shes all apologetic and adopts a hard to get position immediately... Now she seems to have standards my attraction for her rose and i try to get her to come over watch a film or w.e and i get blown out... I mean wtf... the girl was begging me to come over just for sex... now she literally blows me off just for plans...
So yeah I seem to find those situations or very similar ones commonly... Must have gotten 10+ seriously interested girls over the last 3 or so weeks but no days 2's... and I don't know what I'm doing wrong...
Cheers for advice
Much love
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