Hey Everyone,

So it's been close on 6mths since I last posted here, things were going great I was in a relationship with an amazing girl and didn't feel the need to continue in the community, my firend circle was awesome and I was flying out to european cities just to party for the weekends... then over one night it all changed...

With a bad break-up I've lost practially all my self-confidence. I can just about force an opener and then end up standing there with people looking at me with a "well say something we're open and looking at you!" before politefully ejecting feeling lost.

I've lost all my PUA skills (if I had any to begin with) and to make things worse my Devil-kin now EX has taken all of my friends with her so I don't even have people to go out with.

This is a piss poor state of affairs, things really have hit rock bottom and I can honestly say after a month of staying in I'm stuck and depressed.

So I was trying to work out a way to get back on my feet, and I remembered StyleLife.com which I'd read about before... but at $20 a week I'm wondering if it's a waste of money?
Sure the advertising and reviews are great but thats what marketers are paid for right?

Does anyone have experience of that website or any advice on moving forward, as it's not as straight forward as "go out sarging" with no friends which I'm highly embaressed to say!

Any help will be of massive help guys!

Exactly what K says. Get onboard with RSD material like Tyler Durden's Blueprint. This is the most powerful PU based stuff i've heard.

Hey – it’s not embarrassing to have no friends to go out with… it’s very easy to let your friends fall by the wayside when in a relationship. Just remember the lesson for next time!

I know this sounds like a total cliché but you really should think about sorting out your whole life before thinking about pick up. Think about what would happen if you got a girlfriend tomorrow – you could go out to bars with her, go to the beach with her, inherit her friendship group and all the rest. But when it ends (statistically it will eventually) you will be left with nothing again. Practice pick up – but practice on guys first!! Not in a ‘ooooh nice buns’ kind of way though!

Think about guys you work/study with… any you can hold a decent conversation with? Just see if they want to go for drink after work…

Play sports? Again a total cliché but join a club… I row and pretty much have an instant group of mates from my boat, plus the ladies are HOT!

Be interested in people whoever they are... everyone likes to talk about themselves.

As the others say, ignore style life cos you probably won’t be arsed to do the silly little challenges anyway – RSD is great. In terms of non pick up stuff that will help with the rest of your life try ‘Feel the Fear and do it anyway’ by Susan Jeffers and the total classic which everyone should read ‘How to win friends and influence people’ by Dale Carnegie. I found feel the fear really helpful…

Good luck bud……….

Hey thanks guys thats really inspiring, you know I never looked into RSD so maybe thats a new way forward and I can keep my $20 a week by not joining Stylelife!

I'll have to find out about the RSD guys as I have little knowledge of them or their systems , can anyone recommend a good starting place to get some of their material, I've done a search and managed to find Tyler's Blueprint book which should make for a start to reading

Thanks again and lets hope I can turn this around and make life better!

Hey, you seem to be in a similar situation to me. I had a gf, it ended n I was gutted, I got into PU and it went quite well; I eventually got back with my ex (by using some of the tools I learnt from PU). We were together for about 6 months and then it ended badly again. I took it really bad and she told me that she was engaged (after about 4/5 months of seeing this new guy) and then I found out she was pregnant off facebook (cos she didn't tell me that!). Like you, my confidence was shot. I actually didn't even bother trying to meet any new girls for about a year!

Well now I feel over it and have a drive for life again so I'm starting up PU again. Infact I'm meeting some guys from this website tomorrow and starting up again. Like Kowalski said, you just have to get back in there again (even though I can't talk cos it took me a year!) but I'm sure after you start having a bit of success you'll forget all about the dreaded 'ex'!

I hope my story helped. Remember sh1t like that is always only temporary

So I passed the first test of self-development by being resourceful and finding my way to a video of "Blueprint De-Coded" (Tyler's RSD seminar).

At this point I have to stress my Thanks to everyone thats posted on this thread... Especially Nova and Kowalski for pushing me towards RSD (in fact guys I think you've just changed my life).

Today I've sat through 6 hours of day 1 of the seminar and it really is like being given the red pill in the matrix, things have never been so clear in my life and finally everything is starting to go 'Click' in my head.

I'm actually feeling so good now it's unbelievable. I've sat and looked at my life and realised that actually Tyler is spot on EVERYTHING I've been striving for in life I don't need and it was society making me think if I do this, this and this I'll be successful with women... Oh how diluded I was.

So yeh I feel like someone's removed a blindfold that I've had on since birth and I'm now ready to start over and live again. Oh man I'm so pysched and buzzing right now... THANK YOU SO MUCH GUYS!!!!

Ambitious