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Originally Posted by D!ce
I wouldn't have thought that a third date is necessarily slutty, in fact I'd say that's pretty much the norm (at least from my experience)
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It's not really about the timescale or numbers of dates (note that I had met her 2/3 months ago). It took her 5 days after sex to feel like I only wanted her for sex. I had made a suggestive text in the week that I should check out the view from her window, and although she made light of it, it was probably the tipping point. I had not made her feel valued in any other way, despite really being into her. I just played it far too cool joking around with her in texts and leaving her guessing, and generally showing no emotions, yet allowing her to show me emotions.
After leaving the scene yesterday, I text her:
Me: Thanks for listening
Her: I don't know why I am attracted to you too. Can still see you, but I'm gonna focus on exams now
Now I will let the dust settle for a while.