the other day I was hanging out with a girlfriend and she was in a right bitch mood.

having semi-digs at me for ariving late, and generally making the situaion as awkward as possible. she blamed her mood on something that had happend earlier on that day, anyway to the point- I had this feeling inside that I had to fix her (so to speak) make everything alright tell her things are okay!! I felt like a chode behaving like this and have no Idea how to handle womens mood swings any input welcome


Namaste sinstyle

Yo Dave,
I've been married and been in this situation a lot. Best thing to do is NOT to fix it. Women dont like to hear the solution. Whereas us men like to offer one. Most of the time they just like to be heard and before long they will be fine again. Maybe this is a chodey answer and others can offer a better advice from a PU perspective. It's my experience.

thanks for the input legend .

I think you're on the money here Legend. From an evolutionary point of view, men are adapted to solve problems logically - hence, we see a chick in a mood, we think of a way to put it right clinically and mathematically.

Women, on the other hand, deal more in emotions, so like you said it's probably enough that she blows off some steam and you just sit back and let her vent spleen. Don't look to solve the problem, just listen.

I had a similar issue with a girl the other day. I arrived at her house about 10 minutes late to take her to a party, and she was in a very bad mood indeed. My man-instincts said "Quick! Say something to make it right!" but I just mostly agreed with her and let her be pissed off for a while. I ended up making a success out of things.

Jesus listen to me talk about evolution and natural instincts...can you tell I've been listening to the Blueprint?

she might be testing you to see how much of a man you are, or she might just be a bitch, try using an ancher, an ancher can be a touch- you could touch her ear or shoulder, whatever everytime your about to make her orgasim or when she's laughing her head off at somthing you said, then when shes in a shit mood just touch that ear and her subconscious mind will turn her legs into jelly and she'l forget what she was pissed about.

Legend and Blanca have got it spot on

Women don't want solutions so don't bother they want empathy.

Don't be late tho. I used to be late for pretty much everything and with girls, it always seemed to have worst results