Hey guys Will here,
As i said before i decided to start the challenge again for extra benefit, last time i got to day 7 this time im now on day 4 and it was really successfull.
However it didnt really bother me but after i hhad made my successful three approaches i got a white hot choclate drink.
As i went to drink it outside i passed a group of girls which one of them said:

Girl: Ohhhh look hes sat on his own.

ME: (Smiled)

Gril: Ohh would you like us to sit near you.

ME: If you would like to.

Girl: No not really.... I can tell you like me by the way youve tied your shoe lases (Here mates beal and laugh).

ME: Unfortunatly for you your not my type, too much fake tan.

Girl: Ohhhh fake tan a (All Laughing and muttering stuff).


So i was wondering i have a great day and for the first time in my game experience im met with negetive girls, Why? am i lame?

Will.....

Ps The girl (Ring leader) Was not joking she was with her friends but it was very patronising and almost like bullying if you get me.
However it didnt bother me but i wonderd if its something im doing wrong, or is she insecure or what

She sounds like a bit of an insecure cow mate. Just thank f*ck you didn't have to speak to her for longer than those few useless mundane comments she threw your way. I like the way you stuck up for yourself to be frank, you just seem to have let it get to you a bit.

Like Kowalski and Jynx told me many a time:

- You are THE man &
- You are the COOLEST muther f*cker

It's all you need to know, believe this and comments from girls like this will just bounce of you. She could have been attempting to bolster her own fragile ego by lowering your value, or just teasing and testing you to see if you could take it, but at the end of the day it's time to stop caring what she thinks. If you do, you win!

YOU are all that matters in this world. Start giving yourself some love dude!

@nova: with respect, telling someone with low confidence just to 'believe you're the coolest motherfucker' simply does not work. It's like telling someone with depression to just 'cheer up'.

William, you did right to neg her. Simply hold the frame, strongest reality wins, and have your laugh at her. Ignore what she says and amuse yourself at her expense.
You'd be surprised at how vulnerable these bullies can easily be shot down as people rarely stand up to them.

Also, Everyone experiences this. In fact, the more you progress, you will see this more. If you stand up as the alpha male you will get sly comments and confrontations rom not only other males but also mouthy boysterous slappers too. See them as a challenge and take great pride in knocking them down a peg or two.

I loved your come-back mate, brilliant. Seriously you shouldn't give a toss what people like that think of you like Kowalski says, pity them. You're a high value man, you have no desire or intentions to sink to her level whatsoever. Don't let it get to you buddy.

Fair enough, it takes time Tw1sted. I am not gonna claim that I have all the answers in one comment to help Will through of all his anxieties. I am merely planting seeds and suggestions that are slowly leading me out of my own quagmire of self doubt. It's not a fair comparison to say it's the equivilant of someone suffering depression really is it. This is a matter of steering ourselves in the right direction.

As for taking pride in knocking people down a peg or two. Is this really the answer? Do we have to lower someone elses value just to 'show them' or make ourselves feel more valuable? I don't believe this. If they are worth talking to I will talk to them. To me they don't sound like girls worth bothering with, but then we all have different tastes.

If Will wants the challenge and enjoys the banter then what you say makes sense. If not, then he might be better suited talking to people he enjoys talking to. I'm not saying avoid challenges or stay in your comfort zone, I just think of 'Negging' because you feel you have to is well... negative.

I couldn't agree more Jaz. He hasn't given himself the credit he deserves.

Stand up for yourselves at all times.

At the same time, is it worth wasting your breath?? I'd rather not get involved. Are these people worthy of mine or Will's time? Sometimes I prefer not to get pissed off. It just brings my own mood down.

I guess it depends on the senario. The situation Will found himself in was unfortunate (as they were low value girls trying to devalue him) and he dealt with it fine if you ask me. There was no need to go any further. He just thought somehow he'd slipped up. I don't think he did. It's the believe in his own value that he needs to change, that's all. That's what I suggest needs tackling. Tackle this and you won't care so much about what others think.

Personally I don't feel the need to tell someone to be dictating to everyone in an alpha way or to put someone in their place.

Pity them as K says... don't react to them.

Hey guys thank you so much for your replies i value them all, and im glad with all the feed back youve all gave me, it means alot to me.
It actually didnt ruin my day however something like this had to happen on a fantastic day. I suppose its something i must have needed to happen in order to experience and learn, now you have all helped me its made me realise alot.
Thank you all for replying and i hope to do as well tommorrow (Day Five )
Ill put up A thread tommorrow informing you all on my success, thank you all.

Ps Feel free to contact me anytime if you wanna chat.

Your Bro
Will............

I went to a seminar in London hosted by Matt Hussey a few weeks ago, and one thing I went away, I have to thank the guy who was brave enough to volunteer. After following one of Matt's exercises through he (the guy) said something that I think is very important. He stated that "She should think herself lucky that I am talking to her".

This statement got a huge reaction from all the guys there and I believe rightfully so.
If you give someone the chance to talk to you, and they spit that chance right back at you, you don't want people like that in your life anyway.

In Will's case, the girl who he spoke to could have accepted his smile instead of coming out with some snide remark. Therefore a belief that I now hold, is that if a girl gives me sh*t like that my reaction is to say NEXT! I don't want people like that in my life.

I think as others have said that you did very well in standing up for yourself. This was always one of my major problems in that I let people walk over me. You got the last laugh and thats what matters.

I wish you good luck in your challenge though mate, and I look forward to reading about your next day!

all the best

Adam

mate, i think you handled it pretty well.

she was blates a cow anyways.

plus, there was probably a reason why she picked on you, maybe one of her other girl mates noticed you, but she didnt want her having any game?!?!

...bitches lol