Hey guys i need a little advice on this.

I am going to meet a girl tomorrow at hers in a completely new town.
Looking on google shows there isn't a lot going in that town.

I was just looking for inspiration for stuff to do when there is sod all going on in the place or how to play this!



Thanks

James

Chances are if shes from there she will be used to the lack of going out.

Dont fear this, relax, create a bit of tension just being at hers, thats more fun that getting smashed and!!

Is this chick new?

Couldn't hurt to have an activity of some sort. Picknick? Something like that?

You don't want to end up sitting around with nothing to talk about.

What do people do in these little towns?

Picnic! It's fucking freezing!

Is there something you know about her that she likes doing?
Or just find something you like and take her along, don't worry about what she thinks just tell her where you're going and enjoy yourself If you start worrying what she's thinking you won't have a good time, but if you enjoy yourself then she'll be swept along with your positivity.

Ah yes Sussex.

This is a good point, but what does he do in a one horse town?

Just throwing out ideas here; she lives there right? Do you have a wii you could bring along? Couple of hours playing with that someone can be a great laugh.

Failing that, if shes a cool girl, just wandering around talking can be fun.

Take Toms advice here mate. He's spot on. The venue and what you do is irrelevant as long as you are relaxed and enjoying yourself first and foremost. Like Tom says if your are having fun and positive emotions are flowing out from you then she to will be caught up in these good emotions.

I know it might sound cheesy but neutral territory like a bar with a good atmosphere is my favourite, especially for comfort's sake. Doing crazy activities for the sake of it can leave you uncomfortable if you are not enjoying it and therefore will leave her uncomfortable. If you don't enjoy a bar, like I do, then think of what you would like do with any girl you meet. Chances are it's the right choice.

Don't worry about being exciting or perfect, chances are she just wants to get to know you too!

Thanks for all your suggestions guys (except the picnic one, christ Mycroft, were you born in the Antarctic?)

I was just hoping for some ideas at the time but found there was really nothing to do but go for a wander then for a drink, etc! Even got introduced to the parents back at hers and as a bonus was allowed to watch the footy with her dad!! I must of impressed earlier! Result