Hi Guys,

Got a day 2 tomo, meeting in town for a drink when I finish work. Do you guys usually have a gameplan or just go with the flow?

Cheers.

I try not to overthink it, just act naturally and be yourself. So pretty much just go with the flow, your there to enjoy yourself and have a drink, if she happens to have a laugh too then that's just gravy.

Have a game plan. Else look like an indecisive chode. You're the one inviting her out, so you're in charge.

So, know which venues have the right atmosphere, i.e. it's probably best you don't go to a loud club if you're looking to talk. Also, if things are going well, have an idea of how you are going to work towards your house. You don't want to be stood there umming and arghing when she's waiting for you to take her somewhere to be fucked.

Definitely not indecisive, know what you want to do, but get uptight about a plan. I like to be spontaneous when meeting somebody, it doesn't mean that I'm going to sit around mumbling like an idiot trying to decide where to go, but I don't really know where I'm going from one place to the next, it depends on how I feel. But that's just what works for me, everybody's different.

Hah! Don't forget to peacock!

I don't think anyone is suggesting you should get uptight about a plan. Personally I have it in mind which part of town I might want to take her and in said district I will have a few bars/cafes which I enjoy and have decent seating and atmosphere. Knowing your surroundings is an advantage. Also, it might be worth bearing in mind how you might lead her back to your house.

A lot of this obviously is based on what has worked and not worked when we tried something on past D2s. Thus, the gameplan is what works for you. The bottom line, you want to enjoy your date, so do what you want.

Just expanding on Nova point, don't plan what you're going to say or how you're going to interact. Enjoy her and enjoy the moment, don't be outcome dependent. Your only gameplan should be logistical. Where does she live? Where do you live? How easy will it be to get somewhere private? If your goal is not to have sex with her, then you don't need to worry

Kowalski do you know where I could pick up some good quality hidden mics n that?