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Default Are we too good friends??? - 24-10-2009, 03:40 PM

Right heres my current dilemma

Started a new job a couple of weeks ago, theres loads of birds who work there fit birds aswell. And I've done a bit of groundwork on quite a few of them.

However the one I want, is a girl I've known for years and years, and used to be good friends with wen I woz a kid. But I havn't seen or spoke 2 her much at all in the past 4 years.

So since I've started workin there I've been gettin on with her well. She asked me out 4 a drink which went well, and we've got loads in common and I'm pretty sure she fancies me. The only dilemma I have is that thought we mite be just good friends.

Then we went out after work drinking. This is difficult becoz she is fit and she gets a lot of lads chattin her up, which wen u are "just friends" is hard becoz u can't tell people 2 fuck off. But as the nite went on we got really pissed had a good laugh, and then my memory is a bit blurred. But wen we got a taxi home we were kissing all the way back. Then we both went home.

That woz last nite, she text me today askin if I had a good nite, and if I woz goin out 2nite.

So I am now wondering how 2 take it to the next stage and get an F-close, the dilemma I have is, is an F-close inevitable and if it is how do I get there, or woz the kiss a drunken mistake (which personally I don't believe as I think it's been coming for a while) and are we just good m8s?
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Default 24-10-2009, 04:20 PM

A lot of this only you can answer, do you want to be just mates? Are you after a relationship with her or just some fun?

If it's just a bit of fun then you have to make it clear to her that, that is all it is. The problem with this is you might lose her as a friend if it's just for fun. You have to ask yourself relationship, friends or sex?
You can do friends and sex but be prepared for things to get weird or her to get serious about you. You have to make it totally clear that you are friends who just sleep together.

If you want a relationship it'll be easy just take her out again and have a good time.


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Default 24-10-2009, 04:35 PM

Cheers man, it's a difficult situation, don't really know how I'm gonna go about it 2 b honest
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Default 24-10-2009, 04:43 PM

Tom seems to cover what im thinking...!
I dont really believe the drunken kiss is a mistake. She sure seems attracted to you.
Ask her out again, maybe in the day. Have a chat, have a drink, do things. And try and kiss her sober. If shes responsive, then game on. If she declines, she will explain that she only considers you as a good mate, or too soon etc etc..!
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Default 30-10-2009, 12:03 PM

touch touch touch shows your taking it from a friend level to a rampent fuckbuddy level (so crude)
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