The situation
Met a HB8.5 as part of my day game about 3½ months ago.
Brief history of events:

She was leaving the country to start a new life.
Had no luck with an f-close. We parted company after n-close.

Day 2 & 3
We met up and I ran GF game on her instead of hook up game. (not deliberately, that’s the way it played out)
Before we parted she told me that she is in a “relationship” as the mistress of a married man (who I learned later that she has cheated on 3 ½ times) . I also confessed that I am in an unhappy relationship.

Email Game
We parted and stated emailing each other. I discovered a talent for writing in a way that drove her wild. She read what I wrote many many times. I loved writing and my emails were very emotionally charged. Not sexual but very emotional.

My aim was to game her over email and I succeeded. She came back to the country for a weekend and we went away together. We had a very intimate weekend together and I f-closed her.

After the f-close weekend we continued the emails for another 6 weeks or so. We were planning to hook up but then I stopped writing to her.
In one of her emails she tells me about some other guy that she opened and the I was really pissed off. So instead of saying something, I said nothing. Two weeks went by and in that time all I did was send her a mp3 of Pink Floyds -wish you were. A few days later, I sent a long long poem that went alone the following lines,

Imagine meeting someone by chance,
Imagine connecting with that person despite your desire not to
Imagine checking your email everyday hoping he has written to you.
Imagine spending hours reading his words to you ,and only to you, a dozen times over.
And a dozen times again.
Imagine feeling very comfortable with someone.
Imagine being with a person that makes you feel like this.
Imagine the feeling of tenderness as he holds your face.
Imagine being with your soul mate.
Imagine the excitement that you feel when he runs his hands over your face.
Imagine checking your email and wondering why he has not written.
Imagine the horrible thoughts going through your mind.
Imagine thinking, was it some thing you did?
Imagine blaming your self.
Imagine the surprise of getting a communication with a song
Imagine listening and wondering what does he mean?
Imagine wondering if he really wishes I was there?
Imagine how sad & hurt he felt when he was no longer your facebook friend.
Imagine wondering if you will ever see this person again.
Imagine reading his words again and again and again and….
Imagine trying to re-live those feelings again.
Imagine feeling an emptiness that no one else can fill.
Imagine wondering if you will ever see this person again.
Imagine after all the years have past still thinking about that time with your soul mate.
Imagine finally admitting to yourself that you made a mistake, a big, big mistake.
Imagine wondering who is he with?
Imagine still feeling you want to re-experience those moments.
Imagine reading his words again and again.
Imagine living in hope.
Imagine searching and searching but never finding.
Imagine learning from a stranger one day that he died.
Imagine the feeling of loosing someone so special all over again.
Imagine all hope dying.
Imagine a longing for that feeling again and again and again and….
Imagine asking if you could have done anything differently.
Imagine never hearing the songs you inspired.
Imagine being brave enough to be honest about your feelings.
Imagine a life in paradise.
Imagine waking next to this person and thinking how lucky you are to be here with him.

There was lots more lines which were snapshots from our story.

She now says that she feels nothing for me, that she waited just two days for an email from me and then gave up. She feels that there is no future and that we knew there was no future and that now for her it is the end. She also says that it is my behaviour that was unacceptable, not writing anything for two weeks and then sending a meaningless list.

I replied that there has been a lot going on including work and that I would explain he reasons for doing what I did.

She wrote back a rather cold email saying that she no longer felt anything for me and that I should take my time to write back and explain myself.
My last email told her I was wrong to say nothing for so long but I had been very busy at work and that I was also little pissed off at her that out with another guy, even though I had no right to be. I explained that the list was snapshots from our story over the last few months.

Advice and Guidance please.
Long term there is nothing between us but I did enjoy writing to her and we did manage to hook up as a result. I loved the excitement of all this.

Is it dead? What is she thinking and feeling? What should I do next?

You're probably in a better position than you think, but she is testing you. You can't concede and show her that you prioritorise her over the rest of your life. You've explained and been reasonable so just be like "Well I thought what we had was cool but if you're not gonna listen then whatever blah blah...". She obviously wants you if shes gonna say you "should take my time to write back and explain myself" but you can't let her think shes right or the attraction will die. You've got to be prepared to lose everything to get anything at this stage man. Good luck

Also, don't do that soppy shit again :P It might be cool later down the line but save the romance for a romance.

I agree with flake on this you don't want to not e-mail her for 2 weeks and then bombard her with a massive poem, she's probably freaked out by it.
She might have been testing you when she wrote about the other guy to see how you reacted and although I think you probably surprised her it wasn't in a good way.
Things might not be over but flake has some good advice there

Oh and

Fucking yes man! Thats the best picture I've ever seen!

ummmmm,

sound advice even though I hate to hear it. Remember all I wanted from this girl was a short term hook up and I got involved a little deep.

A bit like wanting to go for a burger and fries and ending up having a 3 course diner with wine etc etc.

i was suffering a little oneitus as well when we first met up.

Well my aim was to game via email after the initial meetup and I succeeded in that.

I did have to discover a skill that I did no know I had.

Time to move on I suppose.

Sounds a bit to me like you're avoiding 'oneitis' because you think you're supposed to. If you meet a girl you think is special you should definately go for it, but in this case you should probably move on, or if you are gonna carry on not expect anything and do it for experience. Remember man, pickup isnt just about getting laid - I'm involved because I want to find a girl that amazes me and then try and get into a relationship, anything that happens along the way is 'practice'

hate to admit it FLake mate but you are right.

I have been gaming for several years and just plodding along until I discovered game material on the internet and in the last 6 months I managed to do stuff that I would never have believed.

I am into game because I just love playing, I can not deny it. getting laid is the icing on the cake. I just love the whole process and I the great feeling when it all works like I want it to work. what I want is to be a mPUA and be able to have any woman I want when I want. Is that too much to ask?

I managed to game this chick even though it took me several weeks to get an f-close. I was hoping for it on the weekend that we met.

It is a learning curve I suppose.

I have still not heard from her and it has been almost a week. She even expelled me off facebook, which is what makes me think that she is pissed off with me. She said that she felt nothing but I do not believe that.

I have to game someone else to replace her.

Yeah you do man, And don't worry, similar thing happened to me, I was doing super well with a girl, I got cocky though and didnt really bother after a while, she got pissed off but I carried on acting like I didnt give a shit then I realised it was going bad, I tried too hard to fix it and it messed up.
It's all cool though man, though I think your ambition about wanting to be able to pickup any woman you want is a bit far; I mean by being yourself you will only ever be able to attract a selection of girls, not every single girl. The only way you can attract 'everyone' would be fake and do creepy NLP stuff and thats not worth it. There will be women your not compatible with that you're attracted to but then it wouldn't every work out to anything meaningful if you did win her over.

OK Guys an update.

I have still been evicted as a facebook friend. we have had a few very short emails. It is almost like talking to someone after you have had an argument with them.

I have said that I will be in her city one weekend and suggested that we should meet up face to face.

She agreed and sent a two line em saying that she will tell me the time and place the day before.

what's the advice now? should I go and meet with her or just write her off? I would be going there specifically for this reason although I could also visit some friends while I am there.

Is this interaction dead? She is not investing much in it at all now.