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Success is not the key to happiness... -
03-10-2009, 11:03 AM
Do you enjoy going out and meeting women?
If not then your going to have problems. And I suspect there is a fair few people in this boat. The guys who go out hating the fact that they are going to have to actually talk to people, forcing themselves to do it and cursing their mistakes all the way through have problems getting success. Success will never follow this painstaking process. The truth is that: "Success is not the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to success. If you love what you are doing, you will be successful." -Herman Cain Its fundamental to really start to enjoy approaching the girls your attracted to, enjoy joking around with them and enjoy getting to know them. Most importantly, learn to enjoy talking to people in general. Next time your facing the prospect of a hard night out polishing your social skills ask yourself "how can I make this fun?". The more fun you have the happier you'll be......consequently, success will be enevitable!     
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03-10-2009, 04:47 PM
I totally agree.
I never used enjoy going out back in my choad days, I'm sure I'd even feel anxiety. These days, I really enjoy socialising and it shows! I think the key to enjoying socialising is to build your core confidence.
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