Hi all,

Newbie (ish) from the UK here. Girl started talking to me on hotornot.com. Probably an 8 I guess though only 20 so 6 years younger than me. She gave me her number and we've been Texting since. We've also arranged to meet for a date on Thursday. We've said we're gonna go grab some mojitos although no plans as to where yet.

So the texting has been going pretty well. She's been "playing my game" (I don't know the lingo yet) most of the time. Just text her on christmas morning:

Me: Merry Xmas Miss V. What did santa bring you?

Her: longish text about presents, drinknig sherry and gong for a walk with family. How's yours going?

Me: Great so far. Nobody's here. (not demonstrating HV I now realise). Although I'm a little annoyed with you. (maybe shouldn't have used "annoyed"?)

- So my plan was to lay this and then her say "why? How come? etc." and then I would say: "because I think you broke into my dreams last night", then try and sexual escalate. Unfortunately she replied:

Her: Nobody's there? How come? (i.e. she's being ambiguous as to what she's asking about, whether it's the nobody there or the annoyed bit.)

WHAT DO I DO?????

I guess this is some kind of Sh1t Test. How do I recover or get back onto the topic of my dream. HELP! ASAP! PLEASE! HUGE THANKS TO ANYONE WHO CAN HELP!

Thanks
Kenada

Dude that isn't a test, she is concerned that you are spending Christmas alone!

Just tell her something honest and flirt, don't plan your messages - that is creepy!

I'm kind of glad this didn't go to plan. That line about dreaming of her is cheesy man. What do you expect her to say to this?

As for worrying about the direction of her question. Why don't you decide what direction to take it in.

this post is weird. u need to visit this forum ALOT more.