Right

Some of you guys might remember my ex I used to go on about. Well she popped up like she usually does from time to time. Only this time I just told her to fuck off and never contact me again.

Not quite sure how I am feeling about this at the moment. Or if it was the right thing to do.

Why have you told her to fuck off, did she hurt you?

Does she use you when she wants something?

Do you hate her?

If you answered yes to any of the above, you probably did the right thing.

Pretty much all 3. She pops up every now and then to soak up a bit of attention before vanishing again. Only this time she didnt get what she was expecting

Right or wrong you've said it now so not much you can do other than not dwell on it.

You'll probably see her again very soon.

Now she knows you won't take her shit, you may have sparked her interest.

Kinda happened me recently with my ex. I moved away & forgot about her, long story short she recently revealed that she wants us to get back together again.

Well she told me to fuck off and that she had no interest in contacting me again.

So I doubt we will be hearing from her again

We will see. I'm just glad I finally learned my lesson and got the balls to tell her what I should have told her years ago

Forgive me if I'm wrong but this sounds like a dysfunctional relationship. If you've had this back and forth going for a while and you're both ok with explicitly telling each other to fuck off you probably each thrive on the drama of the soap opera that's being played out. To that end I feel she will be back. You however should move on.

I think you pretty much got it there man. it has been, its not good. I'm at a time now where I actually have some big important good stuff happening. This is the time