By now we all know that there is no magic pill in order to reach the level of success with women that we all desire, no video, no book, no bootcamp will act as a magic pill to take us there though these can all help. Becoming great requires massive in field experience which takes time, commitment, dedication and a thick skin. However, there is one thing that will accelerate this process quicker than anything else as far as I can see. Here are some examples of scenarios we regularly encounter and possible reactions to them:

You got three phone numbers whilst out. The girls aren't the loves of your life and its possible that the numbers will flake cause they were short sets, but it was very validating getting three numbers in one night.
Option A= Dont ring any of the numbers cause you risk losing the validation you got from getting the numbers if they flake. You can rationalise this in terms of the girls not being that special.
Option B= Ring all the numbers regardless of the fact that they may all flake so you can practice your phone game and build your skill set. You don't feel invalidated by the flakes, instead you interpret it as a learning experience and figure out how the approach might have been better.

Your in set and feel like you want to make-out with one of the girls, all her friends are still around and its quite possible she'll reject the kiss in front of them.
Option A= Don't go for the kiss cause you don't want to get rejected in front of lots of people. You can rationalise that there will be a better time later.
Option B= Go for the kiss even if you might get blown out cause it shows that your a man who acts in the moment and even if she turns away you will be unreactive cause she's not rejecting you she's just not ready yet.

You see a really difficult set, one girl with five guys. You percieve it to be almost impossible to open but the girl is really hot.
Option A= Don't open it cause there are other sets with slightly less attractive girls. You can rationalise that its just a waste of time so why get blown out for nothing.
Option B= Open the set because its a challenge and if nothing else you'll learn to handle social pressure.

Your in the supermarket and you see a really hot girl, just your type but you don't have much time so you'll have to go direct and theres lots of people about who will hear you if you get rejected.
Option A= Just forget it, being rejected in front of lots of people in the day will only ruin your day. After all you came to shop not to pick-up.
Option B= Open the girl cause it'll raise your game and lower your inhibition to open similar sets in the future. You don't care about being rejected cause at least you had the balls to go for something you wanted.

I could go on listing scenarios like this all day but I think you get the picture. So whats the difference between the chode who always picks option A and the player who always pick option B.......? The player never, ever seeks to protect his ego whereas the chode always seeks ego protection over putting his balls on the line. To me this is the difference that makes the difference in the acceleration of your game. Imagine if you always opened every set you saw in the day or night and you always escelated regardless of the logistics of the situation cause you never sought to protect your ego. The progress you would make would be phenomenal.

If you look at the main things that are holding you back right now I'm willing to bet that ego protection is somewhere near the core unless your seriously advanced. If your going to ask yourself to make just one commitment in your self-development journey then let it be to drop your ego. Take this advice and see where it takes you:

Lose your ego, raise your game.

or c: get your cock out swinging it round in circles singing tell me what you want what you realy realy want by the spice girls?

very good advise

I want to take my ego and poke its eyes out!

What a fuckin great post!
And this is your first post WTF?!