Day Game - creating stronger attraction.
Ok, so I’m pretty happy approaching and I think the fact I’d been very direct with pretty much every approach has helped me with this. I had assumed however that this ballsyness was enough to build strong attraction. It certainly kick started attraction and some of the girls seemed very excited to swap numbers.
However I feel I have not given them enough of a reason to meet me again, and this is true as I haven't managed any day 2s! I am going to work on this part of my game now. After all, with some of these numbers I have, I (and the girl) have no idea what to say as we have not built strong enough commonalities. I know I'd like to shag them and made that clear, but that alone is not enough of a reason for them to make the effort to meet me. Some strong closes where I did create a decent connection, I have also messed up, possibly as I have been fairly needy about arranging a date (especially as I knew they were busy). I have also laid on the physical compliments rather too thick, but this has no doubt made them just feel like all I want them for is sex. I have assumed being forward and honest was a good thing. However some balance is required and I need to pick up on stuff I like about them as a person too. |
nova i feel like we are at similar stages in life, it would be great to chat with you on FB or summat from time to time.
i think showing intent and interest is not enough which is what you're doing. showing what ur about, your value, negs (aka teasing) etc. are pretty good. |
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i think dress sense and appearance go quite a long way. definitley when starting out.
sure when you're a pussy magnet who's banged 500 girls, I'm sure the confidence and sexual energy will just ooze out but near the start.. i think appearance is really important. i'm currently re-newing my wardrobe and shit cos i need a new look. |
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i find myself overthinking shit a lot by text also.. being out of character.. it just comes across as gay.
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I then adopted the " Dont Give a Fuck " philosophy Just say what you want to say and dont think " could she take this the wrong way" thats her problem if she does you will quickly find that most girls like the boldness in your txts as long as your not too extreme also on a side note , dont suddenly go really bold and say outlandish things if you havnt at the start. they will just think your odd that you have randomly changed your txt tone |
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also. more is less
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more is less?
i thought less is more? |
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my mind is blown
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If more is less, then by default less is more
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