string(1) "0" Day Game - creating stronger attraction. - PUA Forums - The UK's Leading Pick-up Artist Forum
 

Go Back   PUA Forums - The UK's Leading Pick-up Artist Forum > Pickup Forums > General Chat


Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools
(#1)
Old
nova's Avatar
MASTER PUA
 
Default Day Game - creating stronger attraction. - 21-08-2012, 11:12 AM

Ok, so Im pretty happy approaching and I think the fact Id been very direct with pretty much every approach has helped me with this. I had assumed however that this ballsyness was enough to build strong attraction. It certainly kick started attraction and some of the girls seemed very excited to swap numbers.

However I feel I have not given them enough of a reason to meet me again, and this is true as I haven't managed any day 2s! I am going to work on this part of my game now. After all, with some of these numbers I have, I (and the girl) have no idea what to say as we have not built strong enough commonalities. I know I'd like to shag them and made that clear, but that alone is not enough of a reason for them to make the effort to meet me.

Some strong closes where I did create a decent connection, I have also messed up, possibly as I have been fairly needy about arranging a date (especially as I knew they were busy). I have also laid on the physical compliments rather too thick, but this has no doubt made them just feel like all I want them for is sex.

I have assumed being forward and honest was a good thing. However some balance is required and I need to pick up on stuff I like about them as a person too.


girls just wanna have fun
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote

Don't like ads? Register a free account to make them go away forever.

(#2)
Old
aofelix's Avatar
MASTER PUA
 
Default 21-08-2012, 11:22 AM

nova i feel like we are at similar stages in life, it would be great to chat with you on FB or summat from time to time.


i think showing intent and interest is not enough which is what you're doing. showing what ur about, your value, negs (aka teasing) etc. are pretty good.
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote
The Following User Says Thank You to aofelix For This Useful Post:
nova (21-08-2012)
(#3)
Old
nova's Avatar
MASTER PUA
 
Default 21-08-2012, 05:17 PM

Quote:
Originally Posted by kowalski View Post
You can't create attraction.
Perhaps the title of this thread was wrong. What I mean is tapping into potential attraction through getting to know one another.


girls just wanna have fun
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote
(#4)
Old
nova's Avatar
MASTER PUA
 
Default 21-08-2012, 07:09 PM

Quote:
Originally Posted by camarda View Post
numbers game.

stop thinking about it. approach more.

the more you talk to girls, the more you improve your chances.
I'm totally with the numbers game and it will prob take a long time. But you know what, I'm in for the long haul.

Quote:
Originally Posted by camarda View Post
improvements? dress smart. nice smelling breathe. nice skin. look healthy. work out. yadda yadda yadda. its still a numbers game, but having smelly breath really cannot be good.
I do brush my teeth before I head out, don't you worry sir. Maybe I should get a haircut though... BUT, I do think being good at talking to girls is also is pretty critical too. But yes, it's true. This will come with practice.


girls just wanna have fun
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote
(#5)
Old
aofelix's Avatar
MASTER PUA
 
Default 21-08-2012, 07:35 PM

i think dress sense and appearance go quite a long way. definitley when starting out.

sure when you're a pussy magnet who's banged 500 girls, I'm sure the confidence and sexual energy will just ooze out but near the start.. i think appearance is really important. i'm currently re-newing my wardrobe and shit cos i need a new look.
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote
The Following User Says Thank You to aofelix For This Useful Post:
nova (21-08-2012)
(#6)
Old
nova's Avatar
MASTER PUA
 
Default 21-08-2012, 08:27 PM

Quote:
Originally Posted by aofelix View Post
sure when you're a pussy magnet who's banged 500 girls, I'm sure the confidence and sexual energy will just ooze out
I'm with this... plough on. But until then, maybe I should dust off that pin-strip blazer eh.


girls just wanna have fun

Last edited by nova; 25-08-2012 at 12:04 AM.
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote
(#7)
Old
nova's Avatar
MASTER PUA
 
Default 21-08-2012, 09:04 PM

Quote:
Originally Posted by camarda View Post
do you think you need a hair cut? if not, then don't do it.
Word to this bro


girls just wanna have fun
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote
(#8)
Old
nova's Avatar
MASTER PUA
 
Default 22-08-2012, 09:38 AM

Quote:
Originally Posted by camarda View Post
i have never really found what i wanted in game. i've never slept with girls i really wanted to sleep with. i never felt game offered me anything. and most definitely not long term.
Adam, do you feel you need to change something then? Are you playing enough of a numbers game?


girls just wanna have fun
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote
(#9)
Old
nova's Avatar
MASTER PUA
 
Default 22-08-2012, 03:17 PM

Quote:
Originally Posted by nova View Post
Some strong closes where I did create a decent connection, I have also messed up, possibly as I have been fairly needy about arranging a date (especially as I knew they were busy). I have also laid on the physical compliments rather too thick, but this has no doubt made them just feel like all I want them for is sex.
Right, so I have now come to realize that the above part was in fact the real problem. After a couple of days of things are suddenly clicking more, i.e. the girls are responding more to my texts and phone calls, and now wanting to go on dates with me, with me being 'me' the answer, as opposed to trying to smooth talk them through embarrassing texts. Of course, it's still a numbers game at the moment, I need practice.


girls just wanna have fun

Last edited by nova; 23-08-2012 at 12:27 AM.
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote
(#10)
Old
aofelix's Avatar
MASTER PUA
 
Default 22-08-2012, 05:21 PM

i find myself overthinking shit a lot by text also.. being out of character.. it just comes across as gay.
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote
The Following User Says Thank You to aofelix For This Useful Post:
nova (22-08-2012)
Reply


Thread Tools

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off


Pick-Up Artist Forum UK
Copyright © 2021

Powered by vBulletin
Copyright ©2000 - 2010, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.