So earlier on tonight my girl said to me she was going out and I was like cool have a nice night and she said "come if you want". Now I notice she says this quiet a bit or just the "if you want" bit. So it got me wondering is is there some sort of hidden meaning to it or is it what it is?

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I'm no expert, but I think it is definitely code that she wants to try anal.

It is what u make it be in ur head. This however, will fuck ur head up.

This is just a road to mindfucking the crap outta urself man, "what did she mean by that", "is there some other guy", "she is cheating" etc etc etc

I personally wont be in this predicament ever again, after being screwed over by the last girl i loved.

If i where u i wouldn't beat about the bush, i would tell her i was getting bad vibes & ask her if everything is allright. I would not waste time & sanity on this kind of thing.

that dirty cheating whore slut wants to check if u wanna go out with her. grrr what a bitch.

was she maintaining eye contact with u and touching her hair whilst doing this?
and were her shoes matching her dress? if they were, shit is going down man.

if you notice a change, which you have... then somethin has changed.

if you think its negative... it probably is. Its called instinct.

What hammertime said. She's getting bored

She may want you involved in her life more?

Don't let other's bad taints on relationships on here throw you off though. This forum is mostly made up of guys who don't want girlfriends, or were dumped by them and now have a biased opinion against letting their vulnerable side be shown to a girl.

The thing is, the answer to this is the same fucking answer to every single relationship question known to man. Communicate with the other party, let each others thoughts be known - just straight up ask her what she means.

Failing that, like Phil said use your instinct as it's usually pretty accurate. Your subconscious mind reads all sorts of little signals that result in a gut feeling, just don't be a Dan about it.

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Meaning what!?

I told the lad not to waste his energy on it if its gunna mess his head up.

No, you messed the guys head up - then told him to not to use his energy on it.