Ok so this is a bit like Swype's problem, but subtly different.

I've slept with a few female friends but I've only ever slept with them once each. Afterwards I don't have one-itis, though they obviously mean more than most other lasses, being friends. But they usually keep me at arms reach after that, like I seduced them against their will or something. Saying this all the friends I slept with are commitment-aphobes like me, they "don't do relationships". Maybe that has something to do with it.

I'd just like to know if anyone has suggestions on making these relationships comfortable again, if I could get sex again great, if not I'm not that bothered I enjoy their company anyway.

And it actually sounds like something I would say too. I will consider it. Suggesting that a certain lass is "Ashamed" of anything could earn me her disgust or a punch in the face. Sorta explains the lasses I go for.