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Default I am a PUA - 13-06-2012, 02:14 PM

I have attempted to ignore things. However persistent people have to be dealt with. Evil when unchallenged grows in confidence, and then has a danger to contaminate.

I have a trusting nature. However innocence is not always respected.

Since I started this, it has always been about developing confidence. The F closes is something I could not really care about. Since I have met men with huge F Close scores and was not impressed with the level of social confidence, nothing personal, I just wanted something more. This does not mean I am better than them, just that our priorities are different.

The omission about F Closes was not deliberate; I just never cared about it. In addition others teaching online were not disclosing such information. Even from those who attacked me. I found this deeply hypocritical. Confidence is the key has, and for that I respect him. I do not have a suspicious nature, so guess I did not think people would be suspicious of me.

I had made an assumption at times that guys who had 100 F Closes would not have any insecurity. I have learnt that pretty much everyone has. If anyone does not have any insecurity feel free to show yourselves.

I am scared at times, but this is because I have set high expectations for myself.

I have always been frank when questioned about F Closes. I am a NLP aficionado and can with EXTREME confidence say that my score is ZERO. This has no negative connotation for me. So I guess I did not know how much it matters to some guys online. I do not share the same socially conditioned anchor.

I am confident in what I can DO. However I find the online debate as a distasteful place to discuss such things. I stand my by my definition of PUA, in my introduction. It is a broad definition. I have been ignorant of the fact that to some it meant PIMP, which I consider to be a narrow definition. There are AFC’s out there and also moderate experience guys who call themselves PUA. It is pathetic to say that I do not have a greater skill set than some of them.

The debate can go for on forever. I stand my ground. I have met professionals who have recognised me as a PUA from observation.

I have found it offensive for people to question my moral principles - the teaching frame allowed me to do this whilst at the same time respecting my moral boundaries. It has taken two years to have a broad enough skill set to continue doing this SOLO without it clashing with my core values.

If some are hurt, there was no intention of this. I do have a conscience. The intention was always to learn. If anyone complains then that is there opinion. As far as I am concerned I have always reciprocated value. If people think what I do is easy, they have their heads up their asses.

I had the rules as a RESULT of meeting assholes. If people think it was an ego trip. They are wrong. The ego trip is not the best way to develop confidence. Just because I mention I have flaws, this does not mean that I do not usually have more social confidence, than those in a social setting. This is not a boast it is a comment of the hard work that I do to push myself.

I can be civil to those that that are civil back. However I have a healthy respect for both the alpha positive and alpha negative quality traits. To deal with those as is necessary.

I will mention some bad times as I found them hugely beneficial to my journey. I have done some guys sets, which I had neutralised, but later one member came back to pick a fight, at the time I did not understand win win. Another time I had done hostile guy set as a challenge, and was head butted, at the time I did not understand hostile dynamics. I have been pushed by guys. One occasion I stopped a fight between two guys with kino and verbal commands. I could not have done this without learning pua principles. I was scared but still went in, believing I could neutralise it. Another time 10 guys were harassing a gf and bf set, I was hesitating and could not decide what to do I sent in Romeo to deal with it as he is 6, 5, this did not go well as I was not clear in my instructions. This situation left me feeling guilty for weeks. One of the reasons of doing guy sets is that I believe doing them, I could have non violently dealt with the situation verbally before it escalated. My understanding is that PU is about being a total man. How can we be that that without the skill set to protect those we care about. I could not feel good about ignoring someone being hurt. I am not a hero but do believe if I have the ability to assist then I must.

Before doing PU. I would say things unintentionnally and offend people, the fact that I hurt someone would be on my mind for months and vice versa. This was a sensitivity issue on my part. PU has helped me to develop better social awareness, there is no other community to develop such skills. However I have adapted it to suit my needs. This route has been more cost effective and rewarding than stand up to build confidence. I did not plan doing this for this long.

As I have mentioned I do not discriminate between sets. Since I am not an F Close man, I can devote more of my time on approaching aspects.

Private questions, people can mind their own business. However those I consider my friends are privy to my background.

I found it absurd to not refer to me as a PUA, as I can hold my own with anyone of moderate experience. Although my intentions are different, I do value the transferable skills very highly. I am confident not because I am arrogant but because I spend a lot of hours learning this to improve my skills in life.

I find it offensive that people think I set out to deliberately misinform anyone. I have a creative background, so if I wanted to I could have been a lot more convincing. However I do have a moral conscience and would find that difficult. Besides the truth is a lot easier to remember which is why I am a direct natural gamer.

It is absurd that people want to benefit from my skill set, but do not appreciate the pain barrier necessary to cultivate it. This includes a lot of silly exercises similar to RSD. I still do similar things as a way to keep momentum. I do not do F Closes so have had to broaden my skill set to get the same sense of achievement as the rest of the guys. Quite frankly I like doing things that no one else has got the balls to do.

I am melodramatic as I have always been a creative spirit.

I am always honest about what I CAN and cannot do. If people have inferred dishonesty, that’s their business not mine.

I have no wish to be loved by everyone. However I do make an attempt to be liked by everyone.

I am not a professional so can be brutally be honest to students. I have taken great risks at the risk of losing students, purely because I believed in my motivational methods.

I do model myself after James T Kirk; he is a leader and friend to his compatriots.

I have never made claims about getting anyone to be able to talk to any women, or F Close anyone. My boasts have been general comments which I found to be entertaining. It anyone thought them to be anything else. Then I personally believe those to have a negative mindset. The trolls online are still bothered about posts made over a year ago. Some igorning the actual wordings which. For example:-

"Afer being with me why would you go to anyone else. This is a boast that can fall flat on its arse. This is a indirect boast. I am not deluded enough to make direct boasts.

Also boasts saying

“I am the worlds shittist PUA",

“I am the worlds most hated",

"worlds most fattest PUA".

“learn from the gay fake virgin everyone loves to hate”

It is convenient to pick and choose.

The editing has been as a result of my constant change of mind. Not as a result of me covering my back. I guess that is why the edit button exists. I am not one to hide behind my actions. The trolls are bored so have been regurgitating old news.

The trolls have entered my world and have also been emulating the presentation style of the FRs which is a bit IRONIC. As It is sometimes quite difficult to get guys to get the FRs done in a presentable manner.

I have done the best I can, without having the luxury of being trained.

Thank you for your comments. Apologies If I cannot be more light in my comments.
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Default 13-06-2012, 02:15 PM

I have attempted to ignore things. However persistent people have to be dealt with. Evil when unchallenged grows in confidence, and then has a danger to contaminate.

I have a trusting nature. However innocence is not always respected.

Since I started this, it has always been about developing confidence. The F closes is something I could not really care about. Since I have met men with huge F Close scores and was not impressed with the level of social confidence, nothing personal, I just wanted something more. This does not mean I am better than them, just that our priorities are different.

The omission about F Closes was not deliberate; I just never cared about it. In addition others teaching online were not disclosing such information. Even from those who attacked me. I found this deeply hypocritical. Confidence is the key has, and for that I respect him. I do not have a suspicious nature, so guess I did not think people would be suspicious of me.

I had made an assumption at times that guys who had 100 F Closes would not have any insecurity. I have learnt that pretty much everyone has. If anyone does not have any insecurity feel free to show yourselves.

I am scared at times, but this is because I have set high expectations for myself.

I have always been frank when questioned about F Closes. I am a NLP aficionado and can with EXTREME confidence say that my score is ZERO. This has no negative connotation for me. So I guess I did not know how much it matters to some guys online. I do not share the same socially conditioned anchor.

I am confident in what I can DO. However I find the online debate as a distasteful place to discuss such things. I stand my by my definition of PUA, in my introduction. It is a broad definition. I have been ignorant of the fact that to some it meant PIMP, which I consider to be a narrow definition. There are AFC’s out there and also moderate experience guys who call themselves PUA. It is pathetic to say that I do not have a greater skill set than some of them.

The debate can go for on forever. I stand my ground. I have met professionals who have recognised me as a PUA from observation.

I have found it offensive for people to question my moral principles - the teaching frame allowed me to do this whilst at the same time respecting my moral boundaries. It has taken two years to have a broad enough skill set to continue doing this SOLO without it clashing with my core values.

If some are hurt, there was no intention of this. I do have a conscience. The intention was always to learn. If anyone complains then that is there opinion. As far as I am concerned I have always reciprocated value. If people think what I do is easy, they have their heads up their asses.

I had the rules as a RESULT of meeting assholes. If people think it was an ego trip. They are wrong. The ego trip is not the best way to develop confidence. Just because I mention I have flaws, this does not mean that I do not usually have more social confidence, than those in a social setting. This is not a boast it is a comment of the hard work that I do to push myself.

I can be civil to those that that are civil back. However I have a healthy respect for both the alpha positive and alpha negative quality traits. To deal with those as is necessary.

I will mention some bad times as I found them hugely beneficial to my journey. I have done some guys sets, which I had neutralised, but later one member came back to pick a fight, at the time I did not understand win win. Another time I had done hostile guy set as a challenge, and was head butted, at the time I did not understand hostile dynamics. I have been pushed by guys. One occasion I stopped a fight between two guys with kino and verbal commands. I could not have done this without learning pua principles. I was scared but still went in, believing I could neutralise it. Another time 10 guys were harassing a gf and bf set, I was hesitating and could not decide what to do I sent in Romeo to deal with it as he is 6, 5, this did not go well as I was not clear in my instructions. This situation left me feeling guilty for weeks. One of the reasons of doing guy sets is that I believe doing them, I could have non violently dealt with the situation verbally before it escalated. My understanding is that PU is about being a total man. How can we be that that without the skill set to protect those we care about. I could not feel good about ignoring someone being hurt. I am not a hero but do believe if I have the ability to assist then I must.

Before doing PU. I would say things unintentionnally and offend people, the fact that I hurt someone would be on my mind for months and vice versa. This was a sensitivity issue on my part. PU has helped me to develop better social awareness, there is no other community to develop such skills. However I have adapted it to suit my needs. This route has been more cost effective and rewarding than stand up to build confidence. I did not plan doing this for this long.

As I have mentioned I do not discriminate between sets. Since I am not an F Close man, I can devote more of my time on approaching aspects.

Private questions, people can mind their own business. However those I consider my friends are privy to my background.

I found it absurd to not refer to me as a PUA, as I can hold my own with anyone of moderate experience. Although my intentions are different, I do value the transferable skills very highly. I am confident not because I am arrogant but because I spend a lot of hours learning this to improve my skills in life.

I find it offensive that people think I set out to deliberately misinform anyone. I have a creative background, so if I wanted to I could have been a lot more convincing. However I do have a moral conscience and would find that difficult. Besides the truth is a lot easier to remember which is why I am a direct natural gamer.

It is absurd that people want to benefit from my skill set, but do not appreciate the pain barrier necessary to cultivate it. This includes a lot of silly exercises similar to RSD. I still do similar things as a way to keep momentum. I do not do F Closes so have had to broaden my skill set to get the same sense of achievement as the rest of the guys. Quite frankly I like doing things that no one else has got the balls to do.

I am melodramatic as I have always been a creative spirit.

I am always honest about what I CAN and cannot do. If people have inferred dishonesty, that’s their business not mine.

I have no wish to be loved by everyone. However I do make an attempt to be liked by everyone.

I am not a professional so can be brutally be honest to students. I have taken great risks at the risk of losing students, purely because I believed in my motivational methods.

I do model myself after James T Kirk; he is a leader and friend to his compatriots.

I have never made claims about getting anyone to be able to talk to any women, or F Close anyone. My boasts have been general comments which I found to be entertaining. It anyone thought them to be anything else. Then I personally believe those to have a negative mindset. The trolls online are still bothered about posts made over a year ago. Some igorning the actual wordings which. For example:-

"Afer being with me why would you go to anyone else. This is a boast that can fall flat on its arse. This is a indirect boast. I am not deluded enough to make direct boasts.

Also boasts saying

“I am the worlds shittist PUA",

“I am the worlds most hated",

"worlds most fattest PUA".

“learn from the gay fake virgin everyone loves to hate”

It is convenient to pick and choose.

The editing has been as a result of my constant change of mind. Not as a result of me covering my back. I guess that is why the edit button exists. I am not one to hide behind my actions. The trolls are bored so have been regurgitating old news.

The trolls have entered my world and have also been emulating the presentation style of the FRs which is a bit IRONIC. As It is sometimes quite difficult to get guys to get the FRs done in a presentable manner.

I have done the best I can, without having the luxury of being trained.

Thank you for your comments. Apologies If I cannot be more light in my comments.
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Default 13-06-2012, 04:09 PM

wow thats a long mopy rant, and you posted it twice! cheer up


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Default 13-06-2012, 04:54 PM

I have a feeling that this is the JACKAL dun dun duuuun!


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Default Hi - 13-06-2012, 06:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Maxemillion View Post
wow thats a long mopy rant, and you posted it twice! cheer up
U are actually right It is a rant. Perhaps I should care less now. Who cares what I am called.

Kinda stupid really. I can see how much of an over reaction it was now.

Thank u guy.

I am not being sarcastic. I actually feel relieved. Maybe u guys and your humour add value. I was finding it hard to mix humour into seeing things.

Cheers.
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Default 13-06-2012, 07:36 PM

i dont get whats goin on here


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Default 15-06-2012, 08:18 AM

Its just one of Jackal's come backs after some one accused him of only sleeping with one woman and he says he is a PUA. Just wondered what people thought. Can you call yourself a PUA if that is the case?
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Default 15-06-2012, 01:53 PM

Fuck no.

You shouldn't call yourself a PUA for two reasons:

a) It means you're a dick.
b) Why would you want to associate yourself with the typical sleazy PUA stereotype?
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Default 15-06-2012, 08:51 PM

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Well PUA has sort of evolved to mean hopeless virgin so yes.
Once PUA has died a death and we have a new movment masculine progression let me know.


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Default 16-06-2012, 08:14 AM

i am a MASTER pick up artist
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